Help please.
Hello. I am Janus. I posted another post a while ago and I’m afraid I might’ve offended some people so… firstly, I am sorry if I offended anyone. But I’ll try to rephrase it better. I just feel like live chat doesn’t help me that much. Sometimes I get left for hours after a “how are you”. Even if they were trying their best to help me, it felt as if I was getting pitied upon. It made me feel so much worse about myself. I don’t have any friends, people who text me or talk to me only do it because they need something from me. I know I am the problem here but I just want to know what to do. I’m trying my best to improve my mental health because I know it’s going downhill. Sorry again if I offend anyone.
@JanusPi hugs you ❤ it's not always easy to keep up with some of the chatrooms. More than 10 people and I get very confused. Maybe try the quiter rooms. Good luck sweetie ❤
@Tinywhisper11
Thanks! 💕
I'm very similar. I'm alone almost 24 hrs a day everyday. My husband works a lot, and I've been ill adding to the work. I'm a pain in the you know what but pretty fun and worth it or try to be. 😊
I see your a pessimist. I combat my own pessimistic brain with jokes and silliness usually. Therapy is new this month. Nice to meet you. 😊 Say hi anytime. If I don't get right back to you, I will. Sometimes just chatting 5 minutes makes my loneliness disappear for hours.
Sometimes I just come here and do mental exercises the website provides, the path, or answer community questions. Today, I celebrated a birthday of someone I never met. It's a great website so far and a ton of great info, fun and interesting people, and a lot of really useful tools. I love 7 Cups. I'm new and discover new things on this website everyday.
@Warpedme
Thanks. I’m glad someone understands me… I’ve honestly not found anything that can make me happy to divert my pessimistic self. But I’ll try my best! I’m generally a very private person. This platform is the only one that I’ve posted something on. I just hope it is as amazing as you said. Thank you again!💕
@JanusPi
Remember that their actions are not a reflection of what you deserve. That is absolutely never the case, and if someone is being dismissive that speaks volumes about them and nothing bad about you. I'm really proud of you for the courage to try the live chat, im sorry it didn't go the best those times but I promise there are some good ones out there for everyone if you're still looking:) everyone deserves to feel heard
@linvi
Yeah. I really hope there are some that could help me. I still do appreciate all listeners that tried though. I am just too pessimistic unfortunately… Thank you! 💕
You have great advice and actually helped me by accident. Thank you. 😊 I'm been getting the old dismissive treatment. It sucks. I tried to do it back even, although I know that's wrong.
Why is it when they do it, they're doing it because we did something bad, and when we do it it's because we're doing something bad? It's so absurd I laughed and just gave up and started talking again. 😂. Be mad and dismissive by yourself dismissers of good people wanting nothing more than to connect like a hooman. We deserve better. 💜
@Warpedme
I’m sure you deserve the best! 💕
Thank you. I'm sure you do too. Everyone I've met here so far does. 💜 If I can ever help anyone even if it's a hello. How are you today, I'm around and will get back to anyone. 😊
@Warpedme
Yeah, everything is so weird that just laughing and going with it and making the best of it is an awesome way to live :)