Hey guys! I need your help
i like this girl, but we are really good friends and I don't want to ruin the frienship by telling her that I like her.
I asked a friend to tell her that I like her but she didn't respond yet and I'm afraid that I might ruined it. We are really close and I don't know what to do. She seems to like me.
When we are in a group and she talks she looks for me like she is searching from validation. we make eye-contact but like these signs might be just beause we are really good friends. she is giving me mixed-signals and I don't know what to do
What would you do
@goldenBeach293
You don't really have much to go on here...
Is there more than this?
I am glad you enjoy this girl's company.
She must be very nice!🌲
@AsherTree
The thing is that if i would have the asurennce that she would not reject me or atleast that our friendship won’t be ruined, I would do something
There's no reassurance. You just have to do it or not. The truth is it's hard to maintain s friendship once a line has been crossed.
You won’t really know unless you try. Don’t overthink it too much, just be yourself and see what happens. And if she doesn’t feel the same, at least you’ll know instead of wondering forever. 🫂
Yeah but like I would try something but like I don’t wanna ruin what we have right now, I’m not feeling ok to risk the frienship cause we close you know?
@goldenBeach293 if you're as close as you're saying that you two are than being open with her about it and everything else is always the way or what's really there? You got this!
There’s never a guarantee that things won’t change, so you have to decide if you value the safety of the friendship more than the answer. If the risk feels too heavy right now, accept that and let the bond stay exactly as it is....
@goldenBeach293 man, I know that feeling. Honestly bro, just tell her how you feel. She’ll never know unless you tell her, yknow? Try to have a 1 on 1 talk sometime, and let her know you’re interested in her and thinks she’s really cool. Doesn’t have to be super high pressure either. In my experience, it’s better to at least know than drive myself crazy wondering.
For real but yeah sometimes you two can end up being together and it blows over. It's really just going with the flow. No regrets and *** heartbreak. It's better to try than to not do anything
Honestly idk it's kinda tricky. Decide if you're actually okay with ruining the friendship and losing her. Also have courage to actually say it to her face. You wont know unless you talk to her about it directly
I guess, instead of the 3rd person, you should talk to her yourself. It is okay having feelings and maybe she also has.
Don't go for it bro it's a trap, I'm saying it from experience.
@selfconfidentSpruce8454
Aww, I have experience with that too.... but I think going for it is always the right choice! It lets you move on.
Just out of interest what is her name?
@goldenBeach293
