How am i supposed to give me the love i need? 🌪️💖
How am i supposed to give myself the love that i need? I know what i need. A safe human in my life irl. But how do i even give that to myself n will that be enuff?
If yall read my other posts. I think im in a loop. Idk what im doin. I just wanted stuff with Ma to fix but it works for 2 days until i get hurt.
Now i have no affection or love from a human. And it makes me feel rlly depressed. However i dont have anyone else rlly in sight for it. So what am i supposed to do now? I do need love n care. I dont even know if the one i give myself would be enough. I do try but its so lonely. And depressing.
@berrycheesecake90
self-love and care in my opinion will not replace love from another person. Instead, it enhanced things for me.
I knew that self-love I was not dependent on others for validation or approval and I was able to set goals for what I wanted or needed. Before I found self-love and self-confidence I settled for what was offered or given even when it was not good enough. Being clear in who I am also shows to others who respond better to me.
I see ty. Think theres sum inbalances where im at so its harsh
Same
@berrycheesecake90
Hi well to give love, is to love yourself first. Well I am having a hard time sometimes to fully love myself for who I am cause I am swayed by other people's negativity towards me.
But yes, it's not easy finding or giving that love when you yourself didn't experience a love that should be given to you.
Yeah, tru.
@berrycheesecake90 You need a friend? Omg take me! i love showing affection and loyalty towards my friends but i keep giving it to wrong people... I got betrayed like this for couple of times... you might find me a bit boring since i don't play games, watch like series or read fiction, but i can give you the care and love you need.
Ah i see, no thats not boring, what do u usually like to do?, and im sorry that u had to meet such ppl that didnt apprecaite ur care n love :/
@berrycheesecake90
Hey I must say I feel the feel you feel( I just wanted to make it sound a bit funny to lift up the mood 😭😭) . But ya I get you . I need love too but lately almost everyone has hurt me and I have lost friends I never thought I would lose . And all of it happened so fast and I just can't seem to recover fully from everything. Every once a while I feel so empty inside and it's sort of becoming a loop . On top of all this I also have to manage the finals. Tbh I stopped caring about that stuff like ya it feels like stress on studies is much less than the sadness I feel at times. Many days have gone by and I'm just...ok? Im not even feeling fine anymore. Like maybe I don't deserve happiness...
Well ya sorry to ruin the mood with my sadness 😭
But I would like to be your friend if you're okay with it. I guess I'm a bit lonely too
Well if not it's okay. I wish you the best and pray that you get through it soon 😁
No u didnt ruin the mood, i know how it feels cus i been there before with frens 😅🙄😒 well. Hopefully u do find a true being that cares soon aswell. And thank u , i do wish u well aswell and wish u good people and experiences aswell! 🍀
I just wanna say thank you all for responding and helping and offering!! ☺️💖, maybe not everything is fully okay but i have been trying to give me the comfort i need and so far its goin lovely :D
I suppose it just needs consistency and to remember its okay to spend time with myself
