I can only be me. 😞tw
I need this site. It's my way to communicate with other people outside of the care home. I don't go out, cause I'm scared of people in general. I'm disabled with no family or friends irl. It's been a hard jjourney through life so far. I rely on this site.And I understand we are all going through things, but I don't think that's a reason to take it out on others. I'm not sure it's a safe place for me. I'm sorry, but I can only be who I am 😔 I'm going to take a few days to think 😞
@Tinywhisper11 You're right. Everyone here is going through something and it isn't a reason or an excuse to take things out on others. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. I've been on the receiving end of things here by people. It hurts. It's scary. It diminishes you. You make yourself smaller and you get quieter and quieter. This place is as safe as it can be - better than most but there's still going to be some people. The best we can do is report or mute in chats or just avoid those people. Try not to let them take this from you Tiny
@mytwistedsoul I think I'm gonna be a bit quieter for a while. I'm trying to be the best I can be. IT's hard😥 thank you for your encouraging words ❤
@Tinywhisper11 It is a safe place Tiny. Like I said before, do not let a few bad apples, ruin it for you. Please do not give in to those, who try to bring you down. Just be you. Nothing else matters. Please do not keep your feelings bottled up,ok. It is not healthy, to do that. I speak from experience. I used to do that, when I was a teen. I would like to see you back, in the chatrooms again. But when you're ready to return. I am sorry some people are ruining your time here. I would like you to stay. But, it is your choice. I am sorry you're struggling. You do have a lot of friends here, who do ❤️ and support you. Remember, no matter where you go, there are always going to be a few bad apples, you cannot hide from those, you just have to learn to go with the flow, and not be like those. Rise above it. I know, you can do that, Tiny. I have seen you do that before. You can do it again. Take care,❤️ and support always, Your friend, Mango. Ps: Stay safe, my friend and I hope you feel better soon.
@calmMango9611 ❤❤❤
@mytwistedsoul
Me too, I have had so many negative experiences in the internet while looking for support that I got quieter. Thanks for understanding and I'm sorry if you had to be quiet too. Lots of love <3
@seashell145 I'm sorry you've had so many negative experiences too. I'm still quiet tbh. Some days I have more strength to try and fight past it but most days it's just easier to not even bother anymore *hugs* ❤️
@mytwistedsoul
I'm so sorry Soul! Staying calm is okay if you are not feeling like you can do it, there will be better days in the future hopefully. Sending you lots of love and calm <3
@Tinywhisper11 no dear don't feel bad, I liked how you said life's unfair but that doesn't give us a reason to take it out on others, keep your zeal high!
@sociablePineapple6265 ❤❤❤
@tinywhisper11
Hey tiny, good to see you again (I've had username change in case you are thinking who, but my pfp has been the same a while),
I am glad that you are here on this site. As I know many people are. You make people smile, you are funny, kind, caring.
Sadly, there are always going to be horrible people everywhere we go 😞 but I hope they do not make the majority for you. You are so strong and I appreciate you friend 💜🌻
@teenytinyturtle❤ ❤
@Tinywhisper11
Here for you, Tiny❤️❤️❤️ we love you just the way you are..
@floatingdandelion ❤❤❤
@Tinywhisper11 Oh Tiny...if I were there, I'd give you a hug.
It is an unfortunate fact of life that wherever you go, in any group of people you find, chances are there will be at least one unwashed sph1ncter among them. (I'm sure you know what I mean by that phrase) Having said that, this is the safest online place I've been to in years. We're all glad that you're here.
I've only encountered you here a couple times, L. You amazed me the first time we met in a comment thread & you amaze me still. How anyone can go through what you've been through (you lost some fingers!), wind up in a wheelchair & still be that happy & cheerful to everyone every day, is a feat to be witnessed. I don't know how you do it, girl...but it's wonderful.
I hope you come back soon. Also I doubt it will ever happen because I don't get here that often, but it would be great to talk to you in chat one day.
@slowdecline48 ❤❤❤
@Tinywhisper11 hi. I don't know you nor i have an idea of all the struggles you had to pass, but i do know that you're suffering and you don't deserve it. I want you to know that you are someone who deserves better and i really hope you get treated right, i send you my best wishes.
@LadyDannalisa29 ❤❤❤
I have only been a member a few days but you are a big part of the reason I have been staying and coming back.
When I entered chat for the first time you were there and made me smile.
When I came back to chat during an anxiety attack you were there giving a positive vibe.
I stay with 7 cips for the live chats and your a big part of that.
Do not let the few make you lose sight of the many who support and appreciate you.
@PrimalScream ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11 hey please don't feel disappointed by what some less intelligent people say. You're strong and amazing
@considerateCoconut1203 ❤❤ thanks sweetie ❤
We all have to stick together and together we are stronger. Much love.
I’m so sorry you’re going through all this. Both in life and on here
There are a lot of great people, but there are also a lot of seriously unwell or even just malicious people who are taking things out on others. And doing that on an app where people going through stuff, who are vulnerable and feeling broken… is truly heinous
Take all the Time you need, feel free to message me if you’d like
And I pray you find better people to talk to on here if you do decide to return
Be safe
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