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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 13th, 2023

I need this site. It's my way to communicate with other people outside of the care home. I don't go out, cause I'm scared of people in general. I'm disabled with no family or friends irl. It's been a hard jjourney through life so far. I rely on this site.And I understand we are all going through things, but I don't think that's a reason to take it out on others. I'm not sure it's a safe place for me. I'm sorry, but I can only be who I am 😔 I'm going to take a few days to think 😞

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul May 14th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 You're right. Everyone here is going through something and it isn't a reason or an excuse to take things out on others. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. I've been on the receiving end of things here by people. It hurts. It's scary. It diminishes you. You make yourself smaller and you get quieter and quieter. This place is as safe as it can be - better than most but there's still going to be some people. The best we can do is report or mute in chats or just avoid those people. Try not to let them take this from you Tiny

*sending you strength* ❤️
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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP May 14th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul I think I'm gonna be a bit quieter for a while. I'm trying to be the best I can be. IT's hard😥 thank you for your encouraging words ❤

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User Profile: seashell145
seashell145 June 9th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul

Me too, I have had so many negative experiences in the internet while looking for support that I got quieter. Thanks for understanding and I'm sorry if you had to be quiet too. Lots of love <3

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul June 12th, 2023

@seashell145 I'm sorry you've had so many negative experiences too. I'm still quiet tbh. Some days I have more strength to try and fight past it but most days it's just easier to not even bother anymore *hugs* ❤️

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User Profile: sociablePineapple6265
sociablePineapple6265 May 14th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 no dear don't feel bad, I liked how you said life's unfair but that doesn't give us a reason to take it out on others, keep your zeal high!

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP May 15th, 2023

@sociablePineapple6265 ❤❤❤

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User Profile: teenytinyturtle
teenytinyturtle May 14th, 2023

@tinywhisper11

Hey tiny, good to see you again (I've had username change in case you are thinking who, but my pfp has been the same a while),

I am glad that you are here on this site. As I know many people are. You make people smile, you are funny, kind, caring.

Sadly, there are always going to be horrible people everywhere we go 😞 but I hope they do not make the majority for you. You are so strong and I appreciate you friend 💜🌻

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP May 15th, 2023

@teenytinyturtle❤ ❤

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User Profile: floatingdandelion
floatingdandelion May 15th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

Here for you, Tiny❤️❤️❤️ we love you just the way you are..

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Tinywhisper11 OP May 15th, 2023

@floatingdandelion ❤❤❤

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 May 15th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 Oh Tiny...if I were there, I'd give you a hug.

It is an unfortunate fact of life that wherever you go, in any group of people you find, chances are there will be at least one unwashed sph1ncter among them. (I'm sure you know what I mean by that phrase) Having said that, this is the safest online place I've been to in years. We're all glad that you're here.

I've only encountered you here a couple times, L. You amazed me the first time we met in a comment thread & you amaze me still. How anyone can go through what you've been through (you lost some fingers!), wind up in a wheelchair & still be that happy & cheerful to everyone every day, is a feat to be witnessed. I don't know how you do it, girl...but it's wonderful.

I hope you come back soon. Also I doubt it will ever happen because I don't get here that often, but it would be great to talk to you in chat one day.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP May 15th, 2023

@slowdecline48 ❤❤❤

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User Profile: LadyDannalisa29
LadyDannalisa29 May 15th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 hi. I don't know you nor i have an idea of all the struggles you had to pass, but i do know that you're suffering and you don't deserve it. I want you to know that you are someone who deserves better and i really hope you get treated right, i send you my best wishes.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP May 15th, 2023

@LadyDannalisa29 ❤❤❤

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User Profile: PrimalScream
PrimalScream May 15th, 2023

I have only been a member a few days but you are a big part of the reason I have been staying and coming back.

When I entered chat for the first time you were there and made me smile.

When I came back to chat during an anxiety attack you were there giving a positive vibe.

I stay with 7 cips for the live chats and your a big part of that.

Do not let the few make you lose sight of the many who support and appreciate you.

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Tinywhisper11 OP May 15th, 2023

@PrimalScream ❤❤

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User Profile: considerateCoconut1203
considerateCoconut1203 May 15th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 hey please don't feel disappointed by what some less intelligent people say. You're strong and amazing

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Tinywhisper11 OP May 15th, 2023

@considerateCoconut1203 ❤❤ thanks sweetie ❤

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User Profile: PatienceImpatiens
PatienceImpatiens May 19th, 2023

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We all have to stick together and together we are stronger. Much love.

User Profile: AmethystLotus
AmethystLotus June 4th, 2023

I’m so sorry you’re going through all this. Both in life and on here


There are a lot of great people, but there are also a lot of seriously unwell or even just malicious people who are taking things out on others. And doing that on an app where people going through stuff, who are vulnerable and feeling broken… is truly heinous


Take all the Time you need, feel free to message me if you’d like


And I pray you find better people to talk to on here if you do decide to return


Be safe


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