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I can't do it anymore guys

User Profile: agreeableSkies9889
agreeableSkies9889 October 26th

This is so hard. I really genuinely feel like no one loves me. I feel really scared to come out and I am too tall to be a girl anyways

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree October 26th

@agreeableSkies9889

I'm sorry to hear you feel No one loves you..

I hope you can start to reach out to people and find your place in society.. You belong here at least because we support lonely folks here.🌲

User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 Tuesday

I’m sorry things are like this right now 😞

I hope it gets easier 💙 you are seen here

@agreeableSkies9889 Coming out isn't one big thing, or it doesn't have to be, we can do it in stages.

You've taken one of those steps just by writing this - by taking it from something you feel inside to something you've put out in the world. 

You can come out to smaller groups - trusted friends, some family...whoever feels like a safe place to you. 

No matter who you're out to, your feelings and conclusions about who you really are are always valid. 

You've taken a step, it's out in the world even in just a small part, I'm proud of you for that. I know how hard it can be.

@agreeableSkies9889

I am sorry you are going through a hard time. I wish you could see yourself as I see you. You made such a difference for me over the summer looking back I can't believe how kind and generous you were when I was in crisis. You are a lovely person. You are loved here.

User Profile: agreeableSkies9889
agreeableSkies9889 OP Thursday

@carefulEast6708 Thank you so much, that means a lot 🥺

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User Profile: Btrue2u2026
Btrue2u2026 Thursday

Sweetie talk.. it is ok. You be true to you.. that is what life is.. there is no cookie cutter for everyone. Everyone is their own person.. let everyone else be them and you be you

User Profile: Btrue2u2026
Btrue2u2026 Thursday

Sweetie talk.. it is ok. You be true to you.. that is what life is.. there is no cookie cutter for everyone. Everyone is their own person.. let everyone else be them and you be you

I’m so sorry you feel that way! You are a lovable person with many many good qualities I have friends who are kids and they are taller than me I’d never ever ever want them to feel this way about themselves! If I had a daughter and she felt bad and felt like that I’d be very very sad and I’d do anything for her to not believe that.

I haven’t come out (and don’t plan to because I am straight…I am pretty sure at least) but my best friend did and he just said “I don’t want to be a girl, I am a they them now.” And then said “I want to change my name” and then “I don’t want they them I am he now” and it happened it little bits, a haircut, a slight switch, and they were very depressed before. 3 years ago he attempted to you know, and now he is happy and healthy (and we are you so he genuinely attempted it in 6th grade)

People Do Care! ❤️❤️❤️

User Profile: agreeableSkies9889
agreeableSkies9889 OP Thursday

It's good to hear he is happier now! Yeah it's very hard to come out definitely when family are unaccepting... Thank you ❤️

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User Profile: heylistentome
heylistentome Thursday

Hey ...

You have yourself ...

Having your side for you .

Is the only person you ever need .

Bro .heights aren't a matter at all . Yo

Comparing with others you might be this or that . But when you alone stand .

There is no ,- these or those ..

Never try to weigh you with anyone .

Same to u girl , i also feel like this way ..

At least what hurts is that being left unchosen ..

But the main problem is not being able to state or express anyone