I can't do it anymore guys

@agreeableSkies9889

Hey, I wish I could give you a hug right now. I can only imagine how exhausting it must feel to carry all these fears while wondering if people will accept you for who you are. But please do not let your height convince you that you cannot be a girl. There is no single way a girl is supposed to look, and you do not have to change yourself to deserve love. You also do not owe anyone a coming out before you feel safe and ready. For now, please be gentle with yourself. You deserve the same kindness you would give someone you love. If you ever need a little help working through these feelings, MyBeing has self-love and reflection prompts that might be worth exploring. You are not wrong for being who you are. ❤️

@agreeableSkies9889 I understand you:( I know how it feels, I'm going through a lot too, but I want you to know you're beautiful, you're worthy of being loved, and you can do this. If you have a hobby, practice it! Take a walk , listen to music. You're amazing for fighting through the situation! 

I have been there.the only solution is to start love ourselves

Well @agreeableSkies9889, 

If it helps you're not the only one who feels like no one really loves them. I am truly sorry that you feel that way right now. I felt the same way since I was a child.  That feeling is a tough one to overcome. The first place I was told to start looking for love, when starting my mental health journey, is within myself.  I scoffed, then realized I couldn't think of something I loved about myself at that time, because I was told it was selfish of me to think about myself growing up.  Not saying this is your story, just saying I understand how you feel and there is truth in learning how to love yourself first.  So at least you know what your love language is when you connect with someone you want to share your life with. Something I wish I knew when I was young and looking for love.  Would have saved me tons of heartache.  But I also know that you can be given this advice, it's still your choice to believe it.

Congratulations on opening up sharing your coming out here in our community.  You should be proud of yourself for being so brave and probably feel mentally lighter by letting that weightful thought out to the world.  I know how tough that can be, I've had the privilege of family and friends come out to me.  I applaud you and however tall you are as a girl. Trust many of us, more woman then men, have our body issues.  Which is another thing I was told to learn to love as well. I too am struggling with that one. 

Point is you're not alone in how you're feeling right now.  Fortunately you found your way to this community like I recently have too.  Hopefully now you know you have someplace safe to share these sort of feelings.  You can also utilize the resources here to help you figure out how to manage or overcome your personal struggles in life.  You definitely will feel mentally supported along the way.  If you haven't checked out the peer groups in the community tab.  Check them out to see if you can join one more specific to your interests.

Although I don't know you and I'm not one to use the word I love you frivolously.  I do have a soft spot in my heart for your current sorrow of finding love from someone else and not feeling comfortable with your body.  My soft spot in my heart hopes you find your love within yourself so your love can find you. Anyway that's what I was told by a professional counselor, not in those exact words but close. I have to admit there is truth in that advice.

Take care tender hearted one, try to love yourself like you'd want someone else too, and always know you have a place that is happy to support your growth, of a healthier well being.

Air hug 🫂

@agreeableSkies9889 Hey there! I can understand you situation and how overwhelming emotions you might have due to this. There are lots of people who love you but might not be visible right now or have their own way of expressing love that others cannot understand. 

You are precious, and a loved personality. Don't worry, height has almost nothing to do in love.

@agreeableSkies9889 There are some very beautiful tall girls. My crush, when I was in Class 10, was my Physics teacher who was very tall by all our standards. She had a long jawbone, long face, and very pretty eyes and loops on the ears were killing. I found her Awww.... 

However after decades I feel loving myself is the best way forward. And I am also exploring myself, haven't come out either. Feel too old to do it now. 

Hey I'm here for you 💚💐