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I feel like reaching for help is futile

User Profile: AnonismJade
AnonismJade April 3rd, 2025

No matter how hard I try to get help or how many signs I show no one hears me. It’s always blamed on stuff like my boyfriend by my mom or me just not trying enough. My boyfriend makes me so happy so I know it isn’t him, it isn’t my best friend or my mom, I just don’t know why I’m struggling. All I know is I’m exhausted and it’s only getting worse. I’ve barely gotten out of bed the past three days and there’s no sign that I’ll have energy to get up anytime soon. Even typing this is draining.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 April 4th, 2025

@AnonismJade awww honey I'm so sorry 🙁 sometimes theese bouts of depression and despair just appear without warning or a reason🙁 thank God we have this site, a place we can be ourselves without fear of judgement. This is your safe place, you don't have to hide your vulnerable side here💖 it's always ok to ask for help and support, we are all here for you 💗 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗💗 I pray you get all the support you deserve here 💗

User Profile: MZhang
MZhang April 4th, 2025

Hi dear no need to blame yourself! Everybody struggles (at least I do

I get tired sometimes that I can't get off bed as well, feeling like there's no more energy to do anything😢I know it feels bad

Take a good break if you feel exhausted, it's totally fine. Give yourself time to refresh, perhaps you've been working too hard

OR

Have you tried see a therapist who may be more professional in investigating your issues?

I hope things can turn better for you( I really get your feeling because that always happens to me but sometimes I write them down or just follow my heart to take a nap or something...

Feel free to message me when you feel tired💖

User Profile: MarinaLecubet
MarinaLecubet April 4th, 2025

@AnonismJade

Not to seem like a "know-it-all" but if you're getting advice from elders, they may have been there.

Think of writing down your issues and weighing them out. Wee clearly when we read.

User Profile: bountifulSoul5503
bountifulSoul5503 April 4th, 2025

Go to the hospital.

User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy April 10th, 2025

Fatigue / low energy can happen due to many reasons. Give yourself rest but also make tiny efforts for your health. One of things I discovered on my journey was a severe vitamin d deficiency that was causing me fatigue and depression. Please get those checked. Maybe your doctor will recommend other tests and find a best medicine for you.