If you could...
If you could talk to someone dead right now, who would it be and what would you say/ask?
I'll start - I'd talk to my old friend and apologize for ignoring his texts🕊️
I would talk to my dad and apologise for not being able to make him live a bit longer, not being able to fight against his cancer
@Uprise
I'm sorry for ur loss, but please know that u couldn't have done anything more, I'm sure of it. Life isn’t fair sometimes. I know it’s hard, and u wish he was still with u. You wish u could have done more, but the truth is you can never really know if that was possible. Carrying so much weight on ur shoulders must be incredibly difficult. Please forgive yourself. I’m sure he sees you, loves you, and knows that you did everything you could❤️❤️
Thank you for your kind words 💝 🙏
@Yulianaxxp
I would talk to my grandma. I would tell her I love her, and I would ask what she thought about my fiance. :) <3
@madiisunThat’s so sweet, omg. I can see you loved your grandma so much. It’s sad when our loved ones don’t get to see the people we’ve grown into. However, I’m sure she sees you and supports you in your decisions as long as you’re happy🧡
@Yulianaxxp
I'll talk to my friend to find out where I went wrong
@Silverwillows8128
No, don’t blame yourself. I’m sure your friend knows how much you loved them. Sometimes we search for answers, but that search can drain us. Blaming ourselves is never the answer. Even when things feel like they were our fault, that doesn’t mean they truly were. Whatever happened, I know you cared about your friend. Be kind to yourself, you really deserve that too. Sending you strength. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here for you❤️
@Yulianaxxp i'll do the same
I'd talk to my grandfather
Id talk to my grandfather
And I'll ask him do u still think of me
Was i really ur favourite one
I'd tell him how much I miss him and how I can't forget that train journey where he sat beside me and taught me stuff abt grammar
I'd tell him that I could listen to that forever
I'd tell him that I really miss him and he'll be my constant
@inventiveMango5302
That’s so sweet. I’m sure he loves you so much and is watching over you, cheering you on. It’s beautiful that you keep him in your heart, and those memories continue to live with you. As long as they remain, your grandfather will always be with you. I’m sure he hears your words and smiles from up there🧡❤️
@Yulianaxxp
My uncle.... sorry I didn't even able to say goodbye to you properly, yk your little girl is being strong or atleast trying to be strong. I miss you...I miss your not so funny jokes, your laugh, ...I really miss you...I wish you are here with me , to make my mood better when I don't feel okay, like you used to do.
@thoughtfulNectarine910
This is so heartfelt, and I’m sure your uncle knows how much you love and miss him. It’s okay that you didn’t get to say goodbye properly, what truly matters is the love you shared. He would be so proud of you for staying strong, even when it’s hard. And I’m sure, in his own way, he’s still with you, cheering you up just like he always did. I'm sure he didn't change, he's still the same up there. Sending you lots of strength💪🏼💪🏼💜
@Yulianaxxp
Thank you , you're so sweet 😊
Yeah... I think he's seeing me growing and always with me ..
@Yulianaxxp
My uncle. I would tell him that we all miss him deeply. I would ask him about the weight he carried within that lead to all that could've been avoided. I often see him in my dreams and wake up anxious. It's nerve wracking.
@trueconfidant123
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Losing someone like that leaves so many unanswered questions, and it’s painful to carry that weight. I hope you can be gentle with yourself, you really deserve peace too. Your uncle knew he was loved, and I truly believe he’s still with you in some way. Maybe he keeps appearing in your dreams, not to scare you, but to remind you that you can let go of that weight and forgive yourself. Maybe he just wants you to know that you’re doing well and that he’s proud of you❤️
@Yulianaxxp
Thank you so much. Your text really got my eyes all welled up. I miss him deeply and I hope he's at peace. 🙏🏻
@trueconfidant123 
@Yulianaxxp
@Yulianaxxp My mother who passed away 15 years ago
@selfdisciplinedRaspberries7481
I’m so sorry for your loss. 15 years is such a long time, but the fact that you still think about her shows just how deeply you loved her. As long as you keep her in your heart, she will always be with you. I’m sure she’s up there, cheering for you and smiling whenever you laugh💜❤️
@Yulianaxxp My mom, I would ask about her future plans or aspirations.
@exquisiteBraveheart4420
That’s such a beautiful question. It shows how much you care about who she was, not just as a mom, but as a person with dreams and aspirations. I hope you carry a part of her dreams with you, and wherever she is, I’m sure she’s so proud of you❤️
@Yulianaxxp my mom and I'd ask how she expects me to go on without her
@navyPerson9014
I’m so sorry. That’s such a painful question, and I wish you didn’t have to ask it. But I truly believe your mom would want you to keep going, not because it’s easy, but because she’d want you to find happiness again. She’s still with you in the love she gave, in the memories you carry, and in the strength she passed on to you. You’re not alone in this❤️🌺
