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User Profile: Yulianaxxp
Yulianaxxp March 26th, 2025

If you could talk to someone dead right now, who would it be and what would you say/ask?

I'll start - I'd talk to my old friend and apologize for ignoring his texts🕊️

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora March 26th, 2025

@Yulianaxxp Mine would be an apology as well<3 So many things we wish we could have done differently, take back words that might have caused hurt or say the ones we actually meant.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 March 27th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora 💖💖 hugs you tightly💖💖

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora March 27th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 

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User Profile: Yulianaxxp
Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes we can't take back those things or people. But we can't keep living off those bad memories. I'm sure those people see us and they see how sorry we are. I'm sure they've already forgiven us.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora March 27th, 2025

@Yulianaxxp true<3 Thank you :) 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 March 27th, 2025

@Yulianaxxp I would ask my son if he is happy up  there🙂 then I would apologise and ask him for  forgivness. I would tell him I really miss him, and I love him so much and how I would give everything to change the past. how I wish he was here just one more day, just one last chance to hold him to see his beautiful face. I love you Joshua💖

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora March 27th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 Someday we will get to talk to them, be with them and there won't be any seperation this time<3 We hold on to the love and memories till then. I'm sure they are patiently waiting to meet again as well<3

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 March 27th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora 

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User Profile: Yulianaxxp
Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11

Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss💜. I'm sure he's not mad at you or anything like that. You're still his mommy and one day he'll tell you everything he went through up there. Stay strong 💪🏼 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 March 27th, 2025

@Yulianaxxp 😥 your very sweet 💗 thankyou💖💖

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User Profile: azurePond
azurePond March 27th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11  I truly believe that those we love never truly leave us—they live on in our hearts, in our memories, and in the love we continue to carry for them. Though the past can’t be changed... the love you have for him is forever, and that is something no loss can take away. I hope, in time, you find moments of peace and feel his presence in little ways around you. Sending you strength and warmth. 💖

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 March 27th, 2025

@azurePond 💖💖 thanks pond, hugs you tightly 💗💖

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User Profile: decisiveLemon8530
decisiveLemon8530 March 27th, 2025

@Yulianaxxp

How did you do it and move there? What is the secret? How do we come to you?

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Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@decisiveLemon8530 I'm sorry. Sometimes we search for answers, trying to understand how they could leave us. But as long as we remember them, as long as they live in our hearts, they are never truly gone. Keep going, stay strong, and don’t give up. And remember, you don’t have to go through this alone💜💪🏼🕊️



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User Profile: forcefulTortoise8663
forcefulTortoise8663 March 27th, 2025

Hey brother u shouldn't have died because it looks like u are the only one that loved me in this world

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Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@forcefulTortoise8663 Some people leave us far too soon, often in the worst moments, and their absence feels like the end of our world. I understand your pain, and I’m truly sorry you have to go through this. But one day, you’ll meet again, and he’ll tell you just how proud he is of you. Stay strong💪🏼💜🕊️

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@Yulianaxxp

to those two people in elementary:

im sorry I didn’t realise the thing you went through. I’m sorry I didn’t notice the cuts on your arms. I’m sorry I thought you had a malicious plan whenever you tried to be nice. And I’m sorry I never appreciated you enough to keep you alive. 

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Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@that1goosethatEATSyourbread

The fact that you realize it now and feel for them shows that you truly cared. Sometimes, we don’t notice the pain others are going through until it’s too late, but that doesn’t mean it was ur fault or that you’re a bad person. Sometimes we overlook things that are happening around us, but that just means we’re human. There’s no need to blame yourself. Sending you strength. If you ever want to talk about it, you’re not alone💜🕊️



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User Profile: agreeableTalker567
agreeableTalker567 March 27th, 2025

I would go home that night so that my cousin wouldn't have the chance to do something to me back then which haunts me until now.

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Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@agreeableTalker567I'm so sorry. No one should have to go through such an experience, and the fact that it still haunts you is so unfair. None of us are responsible for the actions of others. You are strong for carrying this with you. If you ever need to talk about it or just need to know that you're not alone, I'm here. Sending you lots of strength.

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User Profile: azurePond
azurePond March 27th, 2025

@Yulianaxxp My first love. I would tell him that I’m still afraid of water—more than ever now that he’s not here to hold my hand anymore. I haven’t stepped inside a natatorium since he left, and whenever I visit my family home, my father still drains the pool, as if to keep the ghosts at bay.

I’ve stumbled, made mistakes, survived love that wasn’t kind to me… but I’m still here. I’m still trying. Because you always said “No matter what, you should always finish the race.” So that’s what I’m doing—one step at a time. Franklin and I still climb that wall whenever we come back from wherever we are, though now that we’re older, it’s not much of a challenge anymore. But I hope you know—we miss you. 

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Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@azurePond

Oh, that’s so painful yet so deeply heartfelt. I can feel the weight of your words. I’m truly sorry you had to go through such things. You carry so much on your shoulders, and that makes it even more incredible how you’re coping with it. I have so much respect for the way you keep your head up.

I’m sure your first love is proud of you, cheering for you from above. And I’m joining in too,cheering for you. You’re a strong person. Keep going💜💜👏🏼

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 March 27th, 2025

@azurePond 

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User Profile: sympatheticCherry1844
sympatheticCherry1844 March 27th, 2025

I would ask for their advice they always had very knowledgeable advice

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Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@sympatheticCherry1844

It sounds like your loved ones had a lot of wisdom, and their advice meant a lot to you. It's hard to accept that we can no longer ask them for guidance, but they would definitely be proud that you’re still trying and thinking of them💜❤️



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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy March 27th, 2025

My aunt who was as close as a parent. I would just hug her for long. No words to say at the moment.

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Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@Creamyyy

Oh, exactly, just that physical contact. Sometimes, words aren't needed, just feeling them here with us is enough. I understand you very well. As long as they live in our hearts, they never truly die❤️



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User Profile: Lillyszzz12
Lillyszzz12 March 27th, 2025

@Yulianaxxp Mine would be my uncle and I would say im sorry for never saying goodbye and I allay made fun of u. 🕊️🕊️🕊️

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Yulianaxxp OP March 27th, 2025

@Lillyszzz12

Oh, I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure he isn’t mad at you, he understands and loves you. Sometimes we don’t get the chance to say goodbye, but that doesn’t mean we didn’t love them. He sees your heart and your intentions. You need to forgive yourself because I’m sure he already has❤️🧡



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