I need a hug ❤
Hi everyone ❤ the bottom of my spine was shattered years ago, so they had to amputate my legs 😢 and now I have a trapped nerve in my upper spine. It's soooo painful. But anyways I like to use the chat rooms on here , I like to try and spread happy positive vibes. I know some people don't understand why I'm always happy, and don't really like that. But right now being positive and in so much pain is really really hard. Yep! I'm feeling sorry for myself, and would like it if someone gives me a hug right now ❤
A BIG hug 🙂 You should be very proud of yourself. You are so brave and a role model for people who have everything but keep cribbing n complaining.
@Tinywhisper11
I want to thank you for spreading so much kindness, joy and love throughout our community! 😊❤️😊
Thank you for asking for that hug, making me aware that you would like one right about now! I'm giving you lots and lots of *hugs* ❤️ through this very screen! I only hope that in some way, you can feel the love pouring towards you! ❤️❤️❤️ Oh, my friend, it's there.
I have read quite a few of your forum posts! ❤️ These are things that really can stop people in their moment, stop them in their tracks, make them think and think deeply. I'm somewhat of a deep thinker anyway but you have proven my point many times around this community. I see things as you see things my wonderful friend! ❤️
You are so incredibly wise. You have said things around here that I have thought always, as well, (not quoting you but things that I feel as if you were saying that are what I say too) that one persons pain cannot be compared to another. That their level of hurt and pain, well, if its the most that they have ever experienced, they deserve empathy and compassion. It's not a "one up game" of who hurts the most, who has had it the worst as one person is only able to experience what it is that they have experienced.
I *bow in front of greatness* today! ❤️❤️❤️
I guess we all have a past, a story, things that have happened to us. For me, I rarely share mine as a listener here on this site. For me, I don't want to do that as it could make others feel as if my pain has been worse and who are they to come to me to seek support and help? That maybe they would think I wouldn't have empathy for them. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Pain is pain and hurt is hurt. In fact, our founder, Glen, refers to us as the "wounded healers". Ahhhhh, spot on! And who better to help others than those that have been deeply wounded!
Sometimes, we as people, walk through the fire and somehow come out on the other side and what we do is bring buckets of water to others. ❤️❤️❤️
I too am a highly positive person. I read your words "I know some people don't understand why I'm always happy and don't really like that". I am here with you in solidarity! I have been poorly treated, mocked and targeted on this site in the past and was told flat out, that it's because I'm happy and so I must have a really great life. Makes people mad even though what I am doing is being of service to them. 😳
That's a "them problem" and not a "me problem". They don't know me and likely could not have handled being me longer than 2 minutes in some situations. lol They are jealous people, filled with anger and rage and don't want to do much else than simply be that way. They refuse to be happy and instead create conflict and want to bring others down and make them just as miserable as they are.
I'm glad that you are able to see past some of that! You are wise, you see things for what they are! You are better than that and I am grateful for you! ❤️ Please don't let them steal your joy. Please don't let them dim your light. They are mad because............they can't be you..........but.........would they be able to handle that? Doubtful.
big big *hugs* ❤️ for you and happy to provide them for you whenever you would like! ❤️❤️❤️
@SparkyGizmo awww thanks ❤ you are the wise one 🎅I couldn't find a wise emoji so you got santa Claus 😁 I honestly don't know how you do, being a listener I mean. I would just cry all the time. But it is very honourable that you and all the other listeners here want to help others ❤ so thankyou. I know listeners are not supposed to tell their stories. But I'm here if you ever need to talk. Gives you giant tiny hug ❤❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
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Big hugs for you, 🤗 and msg me whenever you wish ❤️
@jasmineishereforu thankyou ❤ big hugs back ❤❤❤
@Tinywhisper11 You are most welcome ❤️❤️
