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Is there a community/ category for the subject of Anger?

User Profile: affableStrings4654
affableStrings4654 October 25th, 2022

I am having a moment today where a long-term situation of low-level frustration has finally simmered into outright anger, and I have no good place to vent it.

I also have issues with allowing myself to get angry, due to negative conditioning and a strange relationship to the emotion itself. I don't know where to talk about it, because it's often seen as a negative trait, or it doesn't fit in the other categories neatly.

Anyway, I am grateful that today I was able to reach that emotion, because it enabled me to stand up for myself in a confusing situation. But now I need somewhere for that energy to go, and I can only rant to my irl friends so many times.

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User Profile: innateJoy9602
innateJoy9602 October 25th, 2022

@affableStrings4654

Hello,

Hmm. I've taken a look around and I feel that the most fitting place is in this community itself (General Support), in the "managing emotions" sub-forum. I think it's great that you are trying to vent your frustration as best as possible. I believe writing about our emotions, does help wonders in releasing them. I'm also glad you were able to stand-up for yourself. <3 💛

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User Profile: affableStrings4654
affableStrings4654 OP October 26th, 2022

@innateJoy9602

Thank you! <3

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 October 26th, 2022

@affableStrings4654

I hear you and understand i think many people let low level frustration simmer and it is only a matter of time ....i agree having a regular outlet be it exercise or writing a journal and in some cases speaking your mind when you have been wronged.

People who do not learn to do this IMO are ones who will eventually snap.

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User Profile: affableStrings4654
affableStrings4654 OP October 26th, 2022

@toughTiger6481

Speaking up is often the hardest thing to do! I used to be better at it, and then i fell into a people pleasing spiral, and i'm trying to claw my way back up from that.

It's all in little steps, i think. Allowing myself to be angry about things that I have a right to be angry about is the first hurdle, and I think i'm heading in the right direction.

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