Kindly Consider
Hi there, all the beautiful souls.
It hasn't been long since I joined the listener community of 7 Cups. I have been getting personal requests and DMs from many of you. I know, and I understand how disappointing it might feel when you don't hear from me soon enough, or sometimes immediately. I apologize from the bottom of my heart for not meeting the basic expectations. But, since this platform is suitable for everyone to share their problems, I'll look into a bit of my own life.
I am from a very normal middle-class family with usual family expectations and pressures. I have a career to reach, a dream of mine, a goal to meet. Yes, of course, we all have it. Even my dream is to work for people like me who stay silent and work tirelessly all day, all through their lives, but don't ever hear one word of appreciation. But, because of having to juggle the extreme house chores, my own daily routines, school, tuition, and many more works, visiting here constantly or continuously becomes difficult for me. I'm a person who's very emotional and physically weak as well. I got seriously sick a few days ago, but I haven't gotten enough rest even now.
I apologize again for all the inconvenience and disappointment I have caused, but before texting me, I suggest you consider my situation.
I respect you and I feel for you. I have no intention of causing emotional distress to the people I want to help.
Thank you for your time.🤍
@MoonAndSeaWhispers Welcome! ✨💙 I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. It's completely okay to take care of yourself too, and to give yourself space and take breaks whenever you feel like it.
You're awesome, and you truly matter 💝 Thank you for all you're doing ❤️ Sending lots of love your way 🐾💕
Hi MoonAndSeaWhispers,
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts so openly and honestly. It takes courage to speak from the heart, especially when you’re already juggling so many responsibilities and emotions.
I hear how much pressure you’re under — from your personal goals, family expectations, and daily demands — and I genuinely appreciate the effort you’ve still made to be present and supportive in this space. It's clear that your intention is to help others, even while carrying a heavy load yourself.
Please don’t feel the need to apologize for being human. Your well-being matters too, and it's completely okay to step back when needed. You’ve shown so much care just by writing this message, and I hope you’re giving yourself the same compassion that you extend to others.
Wishing you rest, strength, and peace. Thank you again for all that you do, even when it goes unseen.
@MoonAndSeaWhispers It is completely okay to prioritize work, family and tasks over listening. Volunteering as a listener in 7 cups is so great of you and we are truly grateful for you. But I don't think anyone would like it if you let it affect your daily life and your goals. I love how you took time to talk about the matter and addressed any inconvenience caused.
Thank you, everyone ❤️. Things are still too much, but I appreciate giving a reply to me.