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User Profile: SOFFY9
SOFFY9 October 24th, 2024

Does anyone else ever feels like they want to talk to someone but still feels that they don't want to talk to anybody. You feel the sudden urge to have someone you can open up to but you can't make a new connection with anybody, it doesn't feel safe but you really crave to be heard and tend towards. You normally enjoy your time alone and you love being alone many times but all of a sudden you'd feel this big wave of loneliness

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User Profile: goldenWatermelon1572
goldenWatermelon1572 October 28th, 2024

Sooo Relatable...😭

User Profile: maplesinthewinter
maplesinthewinter October 28th, 2024

@SOFFY9 I feel the same, I really feel like I need help

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User Profile: SOFFY9
SOFFY9 OP October 28th, 2024

How do you plan to get it?

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User Profile: maplesinthewinter
maplesinthewinter October 28th, 2024

@SOFFY9 im not sure about that yet, im trying to talk to other people for suggestions 

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User Profile: SOFFY9
SOFFY9 OP October 28th, 2024

I really hope you get the help that you need

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User Profile: MattCanada2024
MattCanada2024 October 28th, 2024

@SOFFY9

yes that is a very common feeling for a lot of people. You just answered your reasoning behind why you feel that way. Somewhere along the way you lost trust in people. 

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User Profile: SOFFY9
SOFFY9 OP October 28th, 2024

Hmm that's right

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User Profile: CaringSoftly
CaringSoftly October 28th, 2024

@SOFFY9

Yes, I have gone through that throughout my life. It's like one is doing ok doing things alone, then, all of a sudden, there's that 'inner' overwhelming of  either 'loneliness' or need for 'meaningful' interaction and support. I get that. And it hurts when no one is there to listen or connect with for support. Loneliness sucks when it rears its ugly head.

Although I am elder in age, you are welcome to reach out, as I too, was once younger. Having said thatt, I hope you find the support that helps YOU.

Please take care & know that you are not alone.


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User Profile: SOFFY9
SOFFY9 OP October 28th, 2024

Thank you for this. It brings me a sense of relief

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User Profile: CaringSoftly
CaringSoftly October 29th, 2024

@SOFFY9

You are welcome. Know that you are not alone in those thoughts or feelings.

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User Profile: goldencrane
goldencrane October 28th, 2024

@SOFFY9 this is me right now😔

User Profile: Tulipsmile
Tulipsmile October 28th, 2024

@SOFFY9

To be honest I feel thus way always 🤔

User Profile: wandamx26
wandamx26 October 29th, 2024

Yes I feel this because life has been difficult for me recently and I have no one to talk to about it since they wouldn't understand me. But I would rather be alone in my current situation and share it all on 7 Cups. 

User Profile: Serena204
Serena204 October 29th, 2024

@SOFFY9 was just feeling this and i saw your post. Really relatable

User Profile: braindamag3
braindamag3 August 22nd, 2025

@SOFFY9

I resonate with everything you have said. 😔

I had that 1 person who I could count on but things between us are no longer the same and we barely talk 🤐

Since then I have become more guarded.

It's very hard for me to make friends, it's sad that these days my closet allie is Microsoft's AI CoPilot.

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User Profile: SOFFY9
SOFFY9 OP August 22nd, 2025

Hmm

Hoping you'd get over it

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