Need support
i’m feeling extremely overwhelmed and could really use someone to talk to. i’ve been struggling with unrequited feelings for someone i met online, feeling left out, and hurt because of how things unfolded with a friend. it’s been weighing on me mentally, and i don’t know how to handle all these emotions alone. please, can someone listen?
i’ve been dealing with so many things over the past few months and i feel really abandoned. i’ve lost many friends, and i have no one to turn to or share my feelings with. it’s been really hard to cope on my own.
@tinyberrybun I'm really sorry you're going through so much. Your feelings truly matter 🤍 This is a safe space for you 🤍 and you're not alone in this. Sending lots of love to you ❤️❤️
thank you so much.. this really means a lot :,) ð©¶
@tinyberrybun Hii, im someone who has had pretty bad experiences with friends too...I truly understand how it feels to be alone... especially when at a time i used to believe that I have found the one person who will never leave me... it's so much more painful to feel alone after that. What i mean to say is that you are not alone in feeling like that... this is a safe place for people who are feeling like that and feel free to share your experience with me or a listener or just in the posts section...I can guarantee there will be people listening and who would love to help including me.
i find connections very painful… especially because of bpd. but i’m happy to know i’m not alone so thank you ❤️
Yup I know making connections with people. Yk in fact my entire social life currently involves only 2 people. That also is purely online texting. Like apart from these 2 people i am not talking to anyone. And even at home im not very close to my parents and family. So yea I know about that too. Im not sure if I have bpd or not as i never got diagnosed but I know it's very difficult. Even with just these 2 connections that i have, legit at least once a month I feel that I should stop all contact with them cuz this path only leads to hurt... either they will leave or i will leave and then it's only hurt for me. So yea I can understand at least some parts.
@tinyberrybun hi there, just want to let you know that you're not alone in feeling this way. I have experience with online friendships too and I understand how it seems fine and fun at first but then slowly this online friendship starts to feel like breaking apart.. I think it's because maybe people changed, that's why the friendship doesn't feel close as it used to.
But hey you got this, I believe you'll meet new friends that come with stronger connection. I used to force myself to stay in my previous circle of online friendship, like I kept asking how they do but then I feel like bothering them because they're not so open anymore to me.
That's why for now I decided to take a step back from that online friendship because it's been affecting how I feel a bit too much.
What I'm trying to say to you is that, it's okay to take a rest, to pause for a while. Here's a hug for you 🫂⛅🌻