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User Profile: skanman911
skanman911 January 25th, 2023

A 3.5 year marriage, she had hidden her bipolar disorder from me, never took it seriously, messed around with her meds, lied about so much.. 🤷 brain says run, heart says stay.. 😂🙂

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User Profile: innateJoy9602
innateJoy9602 January 27th, 2023

@skanman911

I’m sorry. Any relationship is built on trust and finding out someone has hidden or lied to you, always hurts. Hope you’re doing okay. Here for you💜

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User Profile: reservedFriend4828
reservedFriend4828 January 28th, 2023

@innateJoy9602

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User Profile: reservedFriend4828
reservedFriend4828 January 28th, 2023

@reservedFriend4828

You seem to have a compassionate heart or you wouldn’t even contemplate staying .Maybe don’t run but step back a little to get some perspective. It’s hard to make decisions when your in pain. Sending you 💜

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User Profile: jovialPeace5099
jovialPeace5099 January 28th, 2023

@skanman911 Bipolar is a tough one. Medication is key. When people change or go off their meds it gets really out of control. A close friend of mine is bipolar and my mom was as well. It can be a struggle for sure.

User Profile: SilverMistakes
SilverMistakes January 28th, 2023

@skanman911,

That's a huge news to take in. I understand it's hurtful to know that your patner had his this from you. Yeah it's seems confusing too. I hope you can find a way through it eventually. Table care

User Profile: TextingLeon
TextingLeon January 28th, 2023

Hi @skanman911

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User Profile: TextingLeon
TextingLeon January 28th, 2023

@TextingLeon Sorry, wrong clicks hehe

I'd like to say that it must've been a challenge to live with someone in that condition. I'm actually sad why did your wife have to hide it.. I mean, yes mental issues, not everyone can accept that, but as a spouse, she does have the responsibility to tell the truth, and she is not alone, she has you, as her husband to help her through the medical ways to get over her condition.

I pray for the best of your relationship, take time to talk about it, take time struggle on it, and take time to pray, for the Lord will always be there with you, in your family.

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User Profile: Melindann1234
Melindann1234 January 28th, 2023

It takes some time it can be difficult, my husband had I have been married 16 years (got married young) and he has put up with so much of my bull crap and outburst and yelling give her time and help her work through it it’s hard but be a support system. If you can’t because it’s too bad then it is what it is