Pathetic

@baka333 sits beside you and hugs you tightly 💖 people can be mean maybe you just haven't met the right people yet. It's hard when people don't feel the same way as you, or don't understand your needs🙁 but you are beautiful just the way you are💖 don't give up on people ok? Gives you a giant tiny hug 💗we are all here for you 💗

@baka333 im so sorry youre experiencing this. I hope people could be more dependable but alas society is a crisis. ... we are our own hope. ✨️💛

@baka333

I am sorry you're experiencing these types of stuff, it's horrible to get taken advantage of but you our society has normalised it that everything is about beauty and being the perfect size, I sometimes struggle with that too but then I realize I don't own anyone beauty and I am who I am with or without my scars and believe there will be that one person who will love you for you and not for your body it may take 3 months to find that person or maybe 20 years you never know. Keep on going my love and never let people take advantage of you because you're a wonderful human being!😘

@baka333

Ssorry your going through this. You sound like a very trusting and open person. Which honestly, we need more ppl like that, ppl who are ready to love and not play games. So keep being strong, know you are beautiful, Inside and out and lastly remind yourself not to give up hope, the live of your life is waiting, is looking for you, like your looking for him, and counting g on you to never give up on yourself and finding love. You'll meet that person, stay the lovi g person you are. You deserve it. 

I’m so sorry they treated you like that.

I’m not really good in a support words, but can share what helped me when I had a similar problems

• stop Giving them superpowers over you. You are great the way you are and you don’t need a validation. Don’t trade compliments to access to your soul.

• People can be mean without difference of age, weight and any other factors we measure ourselves. They do what they do not because something wrong with you. But because they made a decision to act like that.

• We all have 3 person in us: inner child parent and grownup. Made a choice when your inner parent protects your child from everyone. Inside and outside. When your annoying grownup in your head says something mean about you (“like you are … it’s why don’t like you”) reply in your head confident and calm “if you want to help me- do it. If you want to keep offending me- leave” and switch the topic inside of your head. It requires some practice to train your own brain don’t push you down by saying mean stuff about yourself

• Set the boundaries. Sometimes I say to my inner child something like “this person isn’t a good fit for tou . We not gonna play” and don’t let your clean soul to be surrounded by people who are not helping or supporting

• If you feel like your are overweight - join the gym, class or hire a trainer in your area. Not for proving “them” That you are lovable and once you look better they treat you better— NO, don’t do it for them, but do it for you. Little progress gives your confidence. Once you bet your confidence and your power- you no longer need their validation.

You can also check “Women Who Love Too Much” by Robin Norwood. This book helped me a lot with understanding why I’m giving them full Control before they proved they are worthy

And no, it’s not being pathetic . You are just one of those rear people who walking around with their hears out- ready to give it to someone special

However people around are cruel after they own traumas or just clumsy. They keep hitting you right to your heart. It’s not your fault. So you have to become the one who will first protect your from being attacked, at least attaked by inter voice.

Sending you my warmest hugs.

The good news is you have recognised this - many people have not as yet reached that level of self worth - but you have 👏

Well done!

Stop it now and grow your self value. This will attract people who recognise that.

Sending love ❤️

When I felt like this .bc I've gone thru this too . I stepped out of the dating scene for a while focused on me . Found my self worth again

Hey, do you fear of being "used" or that your body might be seen as your main and only "quality"?

Honestly, it's a sad thing. And i understand it. Let's do something then. Let's talk. Like... text. Let's see if a friendship could born from genuine common interest and keep the visuals for last. What do you say?