Well i guess it's over

So I just ended a friendship today. If y'all read my previous post it's about Liv. If you don't know quick recap is basically she sent me a clip on *** about a motivational speaker talking about how people can out grow each other and I felt stunned because I thought it was about me and it wasn't but she was still acting curt and cold to me. So I asked her if she was mad at me what would it be about. And she said if a friend came to visit and then you noticed something was missing you'd be upset to. I felt very hurt that she thought I of all people would steal from her. I've been friends with her for about six years now. She refused to tell me what I stole. Saying 'you know what you took'. Which I don't. I have no idea what I supposedly took. She kept refusing to tell me. And by me not knowing was also me not admitting I stole from her i guess. She keeps playing the victim card saying how I'm the one in the wrong for stealing from her and not admitting it. She even said "I don't need to tell you because you know what you took" Like no I do not. I tried calling her to talk about it but she declined my calls. I asked her why I would possibly want to steal from her. She even said she didn't know but since I obviously wanted whatever is missing I took it. I am very hurt because I've given her so many things. I bought her a cat for her birthday and paid for several meals we had myself. I have never asked for a penny back. And here she is treating me like this. She tried saying 'well i have given you things as well' I know damn well none of the things she's given me equate or are worth more than how much I've spent on her. I tried convincing her I genuinely have no clue what she's talking about or what I supposedly stole and she kept up with the whole 'do you think i'm stupid and wouldn't notice?'. She said that a couple days after I left from visiting her she noticed it was gone. However the last time I visited her was in JANUARY. So like, what? Why wouldn't she tell me then? Why is she bringing this up now? And apparently she's noticed on more than one occasion that after I leave things are missing! I tried calming her down and explaining but she was having none of it. Saying 'you know i've been through a lot and I thought you were the one person i could trust'. I know she's been through a lot and I've stood by her supporting her and comforting her. I would never in my life steal from a friend. She said 'i don't need to talk to you because you're not admitting to it'. I tried apologizing by saying if i took something by accident, I didn't mean to because accidentally taking something I very possible. I even offered to replace whatever it was that is missing. This happened the next day, she said 'it's not the fact you stole it's the fact you even took anything at all'. At this point I was kind of over it as I realized she was basically gas lighting me and we were running around in circles. I told her I wasn't going to apologize for something I didn't do and I was shocked she would think I'm the type of person to steal from a friend and that I thought she knew me better than that. And she doubled down saying once more how I'm in the wrong and she didn't do anything wrong. She even said "God knows the truth" (We're both Christians. Like really religious ones.) Also said "You decide the person you are but because of your actions and the person that you decided to be you just lost a amazing friend!" Then she said almost threateningly "I'd be careful about where youre going and who you hand out with and the decisions you make in the future because those dictate who you are" then she finished by saying lying and stealing was a sin like I'm an idiot and don't know that. I just responded by saying God does indeed know the truth and I'm sorry she thinks this of me. I reiterated that I took nothing from her and she just refuses to believe me and I can't change that and I don't know what I supposedly took from her. I said my conscious was clean. I told her I would never steal from her because I love her and respect her and was sorry we couldn't be friends anymore.

I'm just really insulted that she thinks I'm the type of person to steal from a friend. If you ask any of my friends right now if I've ever stolen from them the answer would be no. I would never do that as I love them all very much. I love Liv very much and it absolutely pains me that she would even think this. It feels bad, and I don't like it. I feel like I got stabbed by someone I love and trust. I'm still wondering what she's missing. The best thing about this is that I know she will find whatever it is eventually. I think she doesn't know where it is because her house is actually very messy. I hope when she finds it she's reminded of how she treated me and knows she was very wrong for it. We have the same friend group and if they ask I'll tell them the truth and let them decide what to believe. I'll even let them read our text because I have nothing to hide. I decided even if she apologized, I wouldn't want to be friends with her anymore. Yes I would forgive her, but I wouldn't be friends with her anymore. I don't need someone to treat me like this without even talking to me first. She crossed the line and this is a consequence. I just hope she learns to not jump to conclusions like this in the future otherwise she loses more friends. I just feel very hurt right now that someone I would consider a sister or even closer than that would just do this to me.