What is happening ?no idea.. need space same time need company
It moody I am? Or I am changing ?
Sometime i feel to talk to normal human .. like little laugh or deep talk or just light hearted . But I don't like to bond deep or commit with tag.
Sometime i look for stable thing. Where I can talk regular and letting each other know if can't make up to routine.
Earlier I was more comfortable with young.
Now I am not comfortable with younger because most of time I am their hidden part of life. People around my if less judgmental thn I am fine. Else I feel run away.
No idea why the demand the expectation is unstable
@wittyMap7054
@wittyMap7054, As we are all unique human beings, may be feelings and expectations changes based on situations, places , connected people etc..we always exposes to new perceptions too. I feel , need to Take things seriously which are important to us , and ignore remaining as casual.
@Shadowlife
Ah interesting
Can we chat?
@Tan07
We both member so we can't direct chat.
I don't think I m healthy person you communicate here. You are new i wish you meet better people thn me.
I am not good state.
First, this is normal. More than expectation, I feel the need changes. If you approach the subject with curiosity, you will feel better. There can be many reasons. For example, you are an introvert. After sometimes, your energy is exhausted and you need alone time to recharge. With adhd, I sometimes yearn for people to body double so that I can leave for house and go out.
@sociableDrum9946
Your point of view make sense.
I am introvert.
I like my me time
You might feel better if you can be more aware of what is draining for you. Like the environment or conversations or number of people. That will help you preserve your energy. Also, you will know after how much time you need to recharge. For me, more than 5 is a crowd. Clubs would make me sad. I like energy of fests in the open.
And common with everyone is acceptance. Create boundary with people who judge or impose.
Loads of best wishes!
@sociableDrum9946
More thn people . There heavy sharing of life issue. Not balance in talk like sometime we have light hearted talk or quick judgement of we share anything. When I have to think lot how to behave and what to talk that also make me exhausted. Or just being giver only also .
Here! You have your reasons.
You might feel relieved being alone. That happens with me. Solo travel has been my best time. I don't have to act in anyway. I can be me and accepted. Every other time I am thinking how I have to be to be accepted.
I hope you feel better, but if you're an adult you need to make adult friends not children as friends. That's dangerous. I was groomed as a little girl and the damage those ppl did to me is just .... Toouch. just please be careful out there.
@HealingWithin111
No no younger it dont mean too young. It odd for me. I have kids i could never feel attraction with so much young guy. No. I understand your concern.
