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I just need to let this out.

I need to work to live but I deeply dread seeing people from work. I can say I’m lucky the job pays and can cover expenses but I hate being around some people. They make me feel horrible and the thought of seeing them is a nightmare and it makes me sick. They talk badly about other people behind their backs nonstop while pretending to be nice. I find their behavior generally disagreeable and persistently annoying as well. The short break I took from them made me feel the happiest I have been in the past 3 years I have been working with them.

I just wish there was a way to still earn as much and NEVER see them, hear their voices or receive messages from them again.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 June 21st

@brightSpring4247

Many places of work will have a repeat of certain types of people.  I too understand the fake nice but really toxic people. I changed jobs over the years and will say these types exist everywhere.

So I found better ways of coping. most are just bitter horrible people who have no life. Like school bullies they feel to be jerks in a situation where they can. 

1 never give them a reaction and make them always believe you have a secret even a laugh .... will drive them nuts. 

2. Ask if they are ill because they look it.... when they focus on themselves, they cannot find ways to be a hole to others. not sure what work you do but i often left others off communication and gave them a taste of their behavior.   If really toxic i have spoken to hr/ supervisor but log details and any witness. 

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User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 June 24th

@brightSpring4247 I'm sorry work is like that for you 💙 that's really *** y 

Sending lots of love 💙 I hope you can find a way to make things work