are people normally sad all the time to the point they become lazy then go through a lot of self hate and doubt then cry easily?
@hopefulencounter *also feels bad for enjoying something they like because it feels like a waste of time genuinely want to be away from everyone sometimes
I don't think people are sad mostly, maybe stressed. Some are numb and processing, sometimes things are hard to work out and it takes a while.
Everyone copes differently. I guess it depends on how many factors there are and whether or not someone has a non-judgemental support system in place..
@ScrabbleBrain sometimes i feel like i should seek help, go see a mental health doctor or somethin like that but my family wont support that decision because that will make things "big" and costs a lot. i think i need to seek help because these past months i been feeling so down, i cried easily and there were times when i didnt feel happy about things i used to enjoy too
@hopefulencounter I hope you get the support you need, struggling is hard. If you study, is there someone on staff that you could talk too or any counsellors available? At least that would be a start.
@ScrabbleBrain thank you, i really appreciate your kind and comforting words.. i no longer study, i graduated 3 years ago :(
@hopefulencounter You are welcome, we all need comfort at times. If you do talk to your family, maybe there are reduced payment options available. It's not my area of expertise sorry or maybe group therapy is possible. At least you can use the forums here to share :)
@ScrabbleBrain it's alright thank you so much, i'll see what i can do
@hopefulencounter I experience similar
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