breaking up with my bf??
I made a mistake when 3 yrs ago my boy best friend and I found out that we had feelings for each other. I should've said something about how a couple weeks later, people started referring to us as bf and gf and saying we were dating. I should've stopped whatever it was right there, because I just because I said I liked him didn't mean I was automatically in a relationship right? At the same time I was in middle school so I didn't know any better. Jan 25 is our anniversary, yesterday i guess, and he told me he loved me. I didn't text him back. And now I'm stressing out because I want to break up with him. I've wanted too since last year. I just don't like him anymore and I never loved him. I feel like I have lied to him for the past 3 years and i can't go back, I want to stay friends but I'm scared that this will ruin everything. I was going to break up with him on Friday, and didn't so now I have to break up with him today or trmw, just Monday which is today, time is kinda confusing rn cause its almost 2 am. And every time I think about breaking up with him I get a dull ache in my chest, I don't why but it only makes me feel more unsettled. I hope that when I break up with him, I would feel lighter, because this problem has been weighing me down for a long time. I hope I even have the courage to break up with him, because I'm scared of confrontation, and if I do it, I hope I get my point across
Wish me luck I guess..
@bobaTeaa1234
I'm wishing you luck.
I know it's not going to be an easy conversation but ultimately one that needs to be done.
You cannot be with someone you don't wish.
And never let people talk you into things that are not for you either.
It's important to stick to your own boundaries.
You are not a bad person at all.
💚🤗
@bobaTeaa1234 I want to give you all the strength to make the best desition for both of you bc in the past I didn't, I was also young, and I just ended up wasting years of my life until life itself decided for us and did what we couldn't. He went his way and I went mine, at first I cried but even after all these years I feel a great sense of relief of having the freedom to live my own true life without lies and have the chance to feel what love is like...a few months after I found a guy that I really connected with, even if we didn't end up together bc of different circumstance, I'm thankful to him bc felt what a true deep connection with someone is like and I wouldn't change it for anything else. Friendships come and goes but the wasted life with someone you don't trully want when you know already there's something else for you out there, it doesn't come back or get any lighter, it just gets more serious until it breaks on its own. This was my experience. So have the strength you need, it will feel way better in the long run.
