caring for urself in toxic family
Hey ppl
I’m having hard time caring abt myself since it’s a lot going on n this night was totally the worst I mean so hard that to keep going is just difficult…
I wanna ask here,
How do u protect urself when it comes to fight or stay away in ur fam?
Most of the time they play victim by the end of it ends up being one or two n I can’t seem to find a way out…… it’s so upsetting but alsp incredibly frustrating n draining… not like they can ever compromise n try to win every argument..
Their toxicity completely ruined my night. I feel so alone without any comfort or energy for this day…
@livbinny
I am sorry you are dealing with that.
If you are living with them it is hard to cut away.......if you live separately you can and should chose whom and how often to deal with them.
Too many i feel put up with things because they are "family" that is not a reason to put yourself into constant crisis and people who are always negative and want something from you.
Thank you…. Yeah under same roof it is. That’s why consulting boundaries n other stuff is much harder if they keep crossing it yk?
I come here when I’m low, alone, without much comfort to express how hard it is to keep up in life.
other than that, ur absolutely right…
@livbinny I wish someone will come rescue you ❤
Thanks….may this wish come true🧡
im feeling so low now…it’s hard to comfort yourself when ur under same roof w them… this is what I’m thinking too..
just rescue me Lord, just rescue us all🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻