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need hugs (T__T) why am i like this?

User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter March 10th

i cry easily especially when someone yells at me like i'm angry but can't so then i cry instead lol but it's really easy for me to let my tears out, but maybe bcause i know why

i feel like a loser, also a loner, i feel like i'm failing at life too. but then im ok again, but one of those days i feel so low like depressed. what i'm sure is i'm mentally unwell, because if i'm well then why do i cry easily? when i'm angry i cry instead, i can't express my anger well.

been trying to love myself but i can't stop hating myself, sometimes i think it's better if i first than others around me because this life, i have no purpose, i have no idea to even get married start family or something like that, i'm scared. everyday i wake up feeling tired, sleepy, maybe i'm just lazy but maybe it's something else

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hopefulencounter OP March 10th

unbelievable how i cried for 1 hour

User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow March 10th

@hopefulencounter I'm really sorry you're feeling this way 🙁 You're not a loser, and It is okay to cry! You're not weak for crying. It's healthy 🤍

Please be gentle with yourself ❤️ You don't have to have it all figured out today. It's okay to sit with how you feel right now. We're all here for you, and you truly matter 💖 I'm sending you lots of love and *Biggg hugs* 🐾💕

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hopefulencounter OP March 10th

@fossilfellow 🥹 thanks fossilfellow, i really appreciate your support🧡🌻! reading your comment makes me feel better 😭cat-crying.gif

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fossilfellow March 10th

@hopefulencounter ❤️❤️

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User Profile: Raahee
Raahee March 10th

@hopefulencounter

We all r unique in our own ways, being unique is not right or wrong or 'why', it's just unique. hugs-big-hugs.gif

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hopefulencounter OP March 10th

@Raahee 🥹🧡 i get it now

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User Profile: 4oreverStar361
4oreverStar361 March 10th

You are not a burden or a loser, and I relate to what you said a lot. Life is like a rollarcoaster.. it goes up and down, but there will always be moments when the clouds part and we can breathe again. It is okay to feel bad sometimes, and it's okay to not have everything figured out right now. Be patient with yourself, and be kind to you. I hope you feel better soon🫂✨️

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP March 10th

@4oreverStar361 thank you so much for comforting me 😭🧡

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4oreverStar361 March 11th

Of course! You are very welcome ✨️💚

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Well, firstly It depends on whether ur a girl or a guy. If ur a girl, I don't know much but I can relate and here's what worked for me. Brutal but honest.we often hang around people who are familiar but give pain by saying painfully things.u should first limit contact with such people and take back ur power. Also u must stop watching full and full emotional movies only. Switch to good quality comedy, positive series or movies Crimes investigation like Cid,adaalat. Drink lots of water and eat good quality food. Make friends with animals and nature.go out let the sunlight kiss u.also change the songs u listen to. Listen to general songs not too much emotional and also stick to videos with good meanings not just sad emotions . These things worked for me. If ur a guy then , First get good quality friends who will uplift u.then work very hard at ur skills and growing ur career, buy a house.motivate urself to buy that house daily.talk positively to ourself and ur body. Hit the gym or workout at yr home atleat 15 mins. Eat healthy drink lots of water. Get good business connections.dont be upset if they try to cheat u in business atleast it's better than a heartbreak. U will build 3 more business don't worry just use the lesson from previous business. I'm not a guy and this is general advice as I've observed guys and seen their struggles. Hope this helps.whether ur a guy or girl. :)

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hopefulencounter OP April 1st

@sensitiveStrings3160 thank you so much, i will try to.. i'm a girl by the way 

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User Profile: stardustnova
stardustnova March 10th

@hopefulencounter

yeah same happen with me too i am also very emotional and cry at small things people around me dont even try to understand that how there words affect and make me feel so negative about myself and my future

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hopefulencounter OP April 1st

@stardustnova how do we stop crying at little things? 😞

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 March 10th

@hopefulencounter

sending you big big hugs <3

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hopefulencounter OP April 1st

@Heather225 thank you, i really appreciate 

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this really made me cry I just joined and the first thread I see is yours I feel like im going through the exact same thing I still don't know how to get through it but that's why im here but I will say that we will be okay the help we are seeking is showing that we are strong and not giving up on our selves don.gif

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP April 1st

@exuberantShade2750 thank you, sometimes i feel like i should seek help but my family wont ever let me see a doctor for my mental health :(

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User Profile: shypotato6263
shypotato6263 March 11th

@hopefulencounter oh dear you're not a loser yk sometimes I feel overwhelmed too and I think its completely normal there's nothing wrong in being sensitive . Ya can start gym and make yourself 1% better each day so guess what happens at the end of the year? You will become 365% better than your present version you just need to work on a goal not for people around you but for yourself and always remember you're not alone feeling like this and its not foolishness 

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User Profile: hopefulencounter
hopefulencounter OP April 1st

@shypotato6263 hi thanks for replying, mfam wont let me do gym . everything feels like a waste to them

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