talk? ask questions? share stories? please?
Hey guys, do you think y'all could help me distract me tonight. Ask me questions, share stories, just chat about anything?
I have been getting really stressed this last week again for a variety of reasons, some days are fine but others are bad. Anyways I learned something today that is shaking me, I can't talk about it yet (that's not up for debate). I just need to talk to people if you can?
Ok y’all, I officially need to sleep. You guys keep each other company until one of you falls asleep. Lol
Night guys <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
Good night! Thank you so much!
You are so welcome! <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
Night Kiara. Sleep well!
I am also out of dappy hearts now
@7Bear7
That's fine. I see how this site rolls. Hahaha. How are you doing dude? I feel like I need to regroup.
@dapperNest2125
Lol yeah it feels like I was trying to respond to 12 people!
@7Bear7
Yeah lol and it says you mentioned me somewhere but I'm going through and it's like looking for a needle in a haystack. I think my notifications just gave up.
@dapperNest2125
Same I am sure I am missing something here somewhere, you don't have to worry about trying to find it
What's your favorite food/meal?
@7Bear7
Oh I'm missing a lot. I'll re read later lol. I just magically got more hearts for you. I'm not about to blow up your notifications though. I'll use them when we leave. Haha.
Uhm I love Asian food. Any kind really. I actually like cooking more than eating. Cooking for people is super awesome.
How about you? Also tell me more about your singing and music stuff if I missed any of it. Just tell me whatever. My favorite holiday is Halloween. What's yours? I got the questions too. Hahaha
@dapperNest2125
That's fine, my actual phone notification disappeared at night so it will only be like 70000 messages showing on cups and not a constant ringing! Lol
Fair nuff, cooking can be very fun, or frustrating sometimes. I like making Mexican food, and grilling, and probably something else I can't think of right now.
I just sing man, nothing much to it, I sing in the car, in my room, while walking, I hum a lot too. My favorite holiday might be Halloween too, the whether is generally nice and all the costumes and people are fun, but Christmas is great too you get to see relatives and it also generally has nice whether so ya know, it's a toss up depending on my mood I guess? I see you have questions!
@7Bear7
Oh man. Yeah you're gonna have 100s of notifications and sorry I'm just trying to pick up from where we bonded with something. I saw you were talking about the job market. Do you have any idea what you want to do as a career? That's a loaded question. I know.
I am terrible at making Mexican food. I had a friend growing up with a Mexican grandma and she made the best food and would have us help all the time. It was like working for Gordon Ramsay hahaha. Yeah food brings people together.
I love the fall too. I love the smell of the trees going dormant and the stillness before... Snow. 😖.
Also I hope you don't mind if I ask. Besides tired and stuff. How are you feeling now? You doing okay?
@dapperNest2125
no no no you're good, sorry if I came across rude or something, I am bad about that especially when I don't know what to sY, so sorry. And please don't worry (also if I misinterpreted it then you can ignore that!)
Yeah definitely a loaded question, umm not really sure, mostly just looking at manual labor jobs for the moment.
i never said I was good at making Mexican! Lol. I think I am decent at cooking it tho, also from Texas so that helps just being close to the culture. Tho not super close cuz Texas is absolutely massive!
fall is amazing! Love the sights and smells and the temperature, and wheather! Tho I wish we got more snow, most of Texas doesn't get much snow.
thank you for asking. I feel calmer now, don't feel like I am going to think myself into a grave. So that's nice, still terrified for the future but nothing is going to change that soon, just comes with the territory. But I feel like I could sleep now if I was sleepy.
@7Bear7
Well first off if you think you can sleep then please do! If you can't then I'll be here for a bit and you can always come talk about something if your brain starts chasing its own tail.
I think people are mad or irritated with me pretty regularly. I usually jump right to that because I don't want to be ignorant if I am making someone uncomfortable or anything. I'd rather fix myself then be ignorant. So no it totally wasn't you. There's not context or vocal/social cues through text.
Fall is just perfect although I don't know Texas fall. Ha. I'm from Michigan so I get ALL the seasons. You guys get like no snow I here but my nephew Texas is awesome and it's one of his favorite places he's road tripped too.
I work manual labor and I'm going to recommend going into a trade if you go that route. Lots of money. I'm not trying to be big adult with you. I just wish I did that. Hahaha.
But yeah dude. If you think you can sleep please don't let me keep you. I'll be here if you ever need a chat though.
@dapperNest2125
Thanks, I will probably try to sleep here soon. Hopefully my mind won't try to chase its tail that doesn't exist!
i get you I think people are frustrated or mad at me a lot too. It's a very good quality to have, trying to fix a issue rather than ignore it. yeah its hard to get a read on people's meaning and emotions through text unless they have a very similar writing style to you and you know each other pretty good.
awww I am jelly! Texas gets like two and a half seasons of summer, a season of fall a season of spring and the occasional week or two of winter every few years! Lol. That's great for your nephew, I love Texas too!
i get ya, I have highly considered welding, but need a break from school so wanted to get a job to see what I liked and other stuff before seeing if I need more education. I get it, I very much welcome advice, so thank you.
thank you sl much for chatting with me, but I think I'll actually take up that sleep officer cuz I think it might work now it's 2 am lol. Once again thank you and Kaira!!!
@7Bear7
Anytime man. Sounds like you have a lot of maybe plans. That's all you need bud. Anyways. I'll talk to ya about the other stuff you said another time.
Hope you get some good rest. I'll see ya around!
Officer lol. Great typo. Night!
@dapperNest2125
Yeah lots of plans, not sure they will ever happen, but Lord Willing one of them will.
Thanks and yeah I make a lot of funny typos, to the point I wonder if people think I am faking it 😭 lol
@7Bear7
Oh hey Bear!
Hope you slept well! I'm sure your plans will work out the way they're meant to if you let them. Don't worry I'm not the grammar or typo police. Just thought it was funny you said sleep police I think. Lol. I'm pretty sloppy too. I understand you completely though and that's all that matters! Good morning!
@dapperNest2125
Good morning! My sleep was pretty good thanks.
Yeah typos can be fun especially when tired, but I get the feeling they get annoying after awhile . I thought it was officers but maybe it was police? Idk
@7Bear7
Not annoying bud! Takes quite a lot to annoy me. I think the only thing is very obnoxious chewing. I get a little misophonia from that. Lol. It was officer... That's right. Whoops.
A lot of times mine aren't even typos. I'll just skip whole words. That's more annoying. I'm glad you got some sleep dude. Hope you're feeling a bit more clear headed. I know nights suck when you're stressed. I get it when I wake up really bad.
Anyways. I might go thrifting but I'll be around if you message me! Don't be a stranger! Maybe I'll find some parachute pants. I didn't sleep so I'm gonna have a really fun day. 😜
You told me you slept fantastically lol
@jesusredeemedme2425
I'm sorry. Was meant to be sarcasm. I don't usually use "fantastically" usually do I? I hope not. But yeah. I just decided to stay up. If I fell asleep now or at like 5 or 6am my whole day would be gone and sleep schedule messed up. I'm okay! I'm spending the day with a family member. We're driving around. Not me driving.
And really I don't want to keep spamming you guys. Probably gonna buy ridiculous clothes, wash them and go look at the museums.😝. I will be available though!
Sorry again. I'm sarcastic a lot.
@7Bear7
And yeah the future is scary but exciting at the same time. Try not to lose sleep over it even though I don't know exactly what you're going through but you'll need all your rest and strength to be the best you and you're a good person as far as I can tell. So I'm glad we got you out there. Take care of yourself please. Don't let the world break you down. We're always here for the hard nights. We have them regularly too. There's no shame in them. It was super cool to meet you. For real.
@7Bear7
Also I'm not telling you what to do. I'm awake for the long haul. Lol. Just don't want to keep you up.
I’m back, on and off, if you still wanna talk <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
I am happy to continue talking, but I am at least a little busy today so might disappear or take a long time to reply. <3
Same! Lol. Periodic randomness day???? ;) hehe
@jesusredeemedme2425
Sounds like a plan Stan!
You sound like my mom XD
@jesusredeemedme2425
Sounds like a good Mom ! ;)
She definitely is <3
Yeah let's talk
Tell me your embarrassing moment from childhood that you just cannot forget even if you try. A funny one you know
@rabil
Hmmm funny childhood story? Idk I am trying to think but nothing is coming to me at the moment, I will reply when remember one! ;)
@7Bear7
Sorry to hear you are stressed, I hope today's a better day for you 💜
@Amanda84
Thanks, it's going well so far.
How are you?
@7Bear7
Glad to hear it 🥰
I spent the last two hours sewing a puppet for my nephew, so now I have needle marks in my fingers, covered in glue and permanent marker and being made listen to reruns of soda pop from K-pop Demon Hunters 😂
@Amanda84
Other than the needle marks that sounds great!! What age range is your nephew? What kinda puppet? What's your favorite song from K-pop demon Hunters?
@7Bear7
I like Golden. It's a puppet based on the new 67 meme, he's 11.
@Amanda84
Yeah my favorite is a toss up between Golden and what it sounds like. I had to look up the meme, and I have no idea how you make a puppet based on that, so hats off to you!
@7Bear7
It took a lot of effort 🥰
Hii I'm here for you
@fireflowerash
Thank you!
@7Bear7 (waves) I'm a little late, not even fashionably lol
@mytwistedsoul
It's okie, I'll reply to you fashionable late! ;)
@7Bear7 😊 Hey! How are you?
@mytwistedsoul
Doing better, how about yourself?
@7Bear7 I'm glad to hear you're doing better! I never know how to answer that question 😅 I'll go with ok-ish. Thanks for asking
@mytwistedsoul
Well I am glad your ok ish
Same I never know how to answer, like sometimes they ask by habit and don't care, other times it's habit but they do care. Sometimes you don't have the time to answer fully, other times not the emotional capacity to get into it. sometimes you don't wanna answer with that person for some reason, like they will try to fix your problem if you answer. That's why I generally say I am ok, as in I am still functioning hence ok. Lol maybe not the best answer but still honest.
I'm late to this topic too. I've been feeling the same way about things today, so I'm not sure I am a lot of help. Hugs to you 🤗 Have a wonderful evening ✨
You ok, sis? <3
Yes. I got some sleep. Today will be a better day, thanks for asking ☺️
hey would love to connect and I do want someone to talk abt some stuff...
@manu2605
Anything in particular you want to talk about?
Between coconut and a watermelon,which one taste better in your opinion?
@bluePrune4079
I have never had a coconut itself but comparing flavors I would pick watermelon!
Have you tried coconut? How did you like it?
Oo you should try coconut,it taste great! I actually like coconut!