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Cheating and genetics

User Profile: courageousHuman2692
courageousHuman2692 July 11th, 2025

Its been a while and so far i can say that even if cheating is not entirely genetic,

The thing is cheaters are cowards, people who are not brave enough to be true

My mom is a cheater. I see that i am weak as well noy weak as in give into my sexual impulse no, but weak as in not standing up to my partner. Not being true with him about who i am as a person. Not having the courage to do whats right. Im scared. Im scared of my partner and 1000 other things. All of these can ultimately lead to cheating and i can 100% be a cheater just like my mom. I dont see myself having sex with someone else but cheating definitely do not start with sex. It starts with thoughts. Its all entirely wrong and awful


Its because im a coward. Worst person in the world. 

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow July 11th, 2025

@courageousHuman2692 I'm sorry you're feeling this way, you're not alone. 🤍 and you're definitely not the worst person ❤️ I wish you find the support you're looking for 🍀 Sending lots of love your way! ❤️❤️

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 July 11th, 2025

@courageousHuman2692

No you are NOT the worst... you are not a coward. 

Cheating is a word that people have strong feelings and opinions about. Sounds like you are mad at your mom not only by any thing she has done but you may  now see it is not as crystal clear of a line you once thought.   I have never seen  a genetic link. 

There is no one size fits all situation of what happened ... We do not have any idea how a relationship is looking from the outside and people smile for photos/ pretend in public  but are miserable behind closed doors.   We do not have to approve or understand  but i can tell you when a person is drowning in pain in a broken or bad relationship things look different.  a person to talk to who listens a person who make you feel wanted/ attractive etc seems like s life raft.  

User Profile: courageousHuman2692
courageousHuman2692 OP December 10th, 2025

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