How can I stop the pain?
My wife of 11 years left me taking the Kids with her. While I was out of town two states away at a church conference. They will not talk to me, no texting, email, or any communication at all, and the kids have their own phones . They are in high school yet they even wont talk to me. I do not even know why she left. They took all their clothes, beds, half the food, half all our money. All out the back door so I would not see from our ring cam.
This pain is something I have never felt before. It actually hurts physically. Constant anxiety, heaviness on my chest that wont go away.
I guess, I will give an update. It has been over a month now since my family left me. I still feel anxiety , I still feel loneliness. Mostly at night when I am home alone. I Also lost my job because of all this. They let me go because I couldn't concentrate on what I was doing. 12 years working an that over also.
I don't know what's happening, my life went all upside down in a few weeks. Trying to move forward now but not knowing what is going to happen makes it hard. I don't know when to call a Lawyer or keep waiting. If she would talk to me we might have a chance but no communication at all.
I’m not sure why you waited for a month. A couple of days go by without knowing about your family is quite concerning. I know you might be under shock but its time to find out. This pain will not go away but having unanswered questions can be a start of some clarity.
I didn't wait a month because i wanted to. I didn't have a choice. Do you think a moment doesn't do by that I'm not thinking about them? I tried every day to contact them. They will not answer me. No only will they not answer me, they won't answer anyone who knows me.
