@greenOcean3764
hello, welcome to the forums. Life can be scary for most all people as no one KNOWS what comes next. I too felt that as I watched others and wondered how they can be at ease.
I think it is outlook in believing the next thing is and adventure not a burden. embracing change instead of avoiding or fearing it makes a world of difference.
@toughTiger6481
thanks for replying
@greenOcean3764
I get it can be scary, imagining the unknown.
And not knowing what to expect.
Welcome and I'm glad you could come here and open up and I hope you find lots of support here 🩷🤗
@Amanda84
thank you yes when you have a lot of health issues it is
@greenOcean3764
Hello welcome here. Lets grow older together. Don’t worry about the future. It will reveal itself as time goes by. Let us live the moment for today. Engage yourself in chores that make you think less about the future, things that bring joy to your heart.
Please share your feelings. This community will never let you feel lonely. We all are scared but lets be scared together. We can find courage.
I’m getting older too (turned 45 yrs old) but recently don’t seem to be able to forget it, thanks to the oldies here who keeps on reminding me :p
I’m joking. Give life a chance and let go of the worry. Whenever they will attack, fight back. Take your time in this process. It just need effort but what doesn’t! I just got tired now only typing :p big thumbs I guess
All love to you Oldie 🥰
@greenOcean3764
Welcome, I can sympathise in full, I found Cups due to loneliness but my PTSD, specifically the fear of decreased mobility as I age has lead to me opening up, talking and sharing being supported and supporting others in return through this awesome community. It's been a revelation for me 👍👍👍
How are you feeling today, just checking up on you. If you need someone to talk to. I am here to help and to support you through it all.
I’m thankful that you’re growing older as well! Indeed, life is scary, especially when things can become uncontrollable and unpredictable. But I believe that it isn’t beneficial in being possessed by those fears. Right now, the main area to focus should always be what you can control and make sure to take life one day at a time. You have every right to fear the future, though I hope it doesn’t haunt you every time! It’s difficult to avoid toxic habits, but there are certainly other methods one can do to improve your quality of life!
I too share your exact fears. WE are not alone. You are perfectly addressing your fears and I feel the perfect start in how you will resolve this concern you had the courage to reach out for response about.
Well done!
It's better to plan your future because it too late too just thinking about what is wrong what is right
