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User Profile: GlenM
GlenM March 23rd, 2015

Congratulations! You made it to the next level on your growth path. Share with us the #1 thing you learned on this leg of your journey!

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User Profile: coffeelover1218
coffeelover1218 April 14th, 2016

step 70....just started meeting with a new therapist yesterday and will start meeting with a dietician next week.

here's hoping everything goes well frown

User Profile: yellowOcean9053
yellowOcean9053 April 14th, 2016

@coffeelover1218😀 Good luck to you! Can be hard to make those steps. Go you!

User Profile: Chiaroscuro1
Chiaroscuro1 April 14th, 2016

@coffeelover1218 - I hope it goes well. I hope you will find a connection.

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User Profile: courteousLion8367
courteousLion8367 April 14th, 2016

i am learning to ease my anxiety. To maybe think of the bigger picture before I react. Trying not to worry so much. I know I have just started but so far so good!

User Profile: Eunoia
Eunoia April 14th, 2016

@courteousLion8367

Congratulations :)

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User Profile: courageousYard8376
courageousYard8376 April 14th, 2016

260. I just had a setback that caused me to lose all the progress I made. I feel like I wasted my time trying to get better.

I know I'm a broken person. But I'm realizing that fixing myself requires such an alignment of the Moon and stars and planets that even with whatever hard work I put in, the chance of me getting better is like the chance of me winning the lottery.

I think it's time to accept that I will always be alone, unwanted, and unloved. People may claim to love me here, but that's because this place forces you to hide who you are.

I've learned that, at least for me, this is all pointless. I'm not really getting better, and the site will be better without me.

User Profile: Iauren
Iauren April 14th, 2016

@courageousYard8376 First of all, I wanted to congradualte you on your progress steps. I realized that you are having difficulties moving forward, which is truly one of the hardest things to do. Accepting one to being lonely when you're in a room full of people who want to help you is rather an unhealthy way to think, since we are all here to support you (or else we wouldn't be here at all) Keep your head up and look towards a positive future! heart If you're needing someone to speak to, I know you will find the Listener that will suit you best mail

April 14th, 2016

@courageousYard8376

Hello. I see you've taken the position that everything you've been doing up to now has been wasted, a waste of effort, of time, of hope and really you were broken all along, permanently.

And I understand where that comes from. I can't tell you what's true or not true about yourself.

But you don't and can't have the right to assume what you will mean to the world, which I bring up because that's my personal belief when you say that this site would be better off without you or when you believe that you are not wanted or loved or needed.

I'm not saying that you are or aren't any of those things, but just that, in a way it feels like you're not giving yourself a fair chance.

If chance, and the alignment of the stars are all that can determine our "fates", then yeah, everything anyone ever did would be uselesss. But that can't be the case then, when people can fall and still rise again.

And that's hard to do. But maybe it's possible. Maybe not everything you've done has been wasted. And maybe even if it has, you've still gained something.

User Profile: Chiaroscuro1
Chiaroscuro1 April 15th, 2016

@courageousYard8376 - I am sorry to hear that you are feeling so terrible. It must have been something really painful that happened to give you such a knock. I hope you will find a place where you feel you can be yourself again without feeling the need to hide.

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April 14th, 2016

I have learnt that half of our battles are won when we start listening to ourselves,the amazing side,the believer and the dreamer.

I believe in the special plans our future holds.

User Profile: coffeelover1218
coffeelover1218 April 14th, 2016

@skjoptm

isn't amazing how much we change when we act on what we want/need? good luck on your journey!

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User Profile: SingleMomma05
SingleMomma05 April 14th, 2016

To relax. Life doesn't have to be so serious.

April 14th, 2016

@SingleMomma05

Hey it's a good thing to do occassionally. ^^ Take care.

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User Profile: dresplandes
dresplandes April 14th, 2016

i'm depressed suicidal thoughts

April 14th, 2016

@dresplandes

I'm glad if you're aware of this and that you need help? I hope there's someone you can reach out to, and especially for when you're feeling suicidal, that there are hotlines which you could call. Take care, please. *hugs*

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User Profile: wittySky98
wittySky98 April 14th, 2016

that love is human and we all have it all the time and it's just there if you accept it it's there

April 14th, 2016

@wittySky98

That's a sweet thing to believe in and have found out for yourself. :)

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wittySky98 April 15th, 2016

thank you, sometimes it is difficult to stay in that but I feel like I can breathe with that gentle reminder @guidingMusic

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User Profile: Crystalpeach
Crystalpeach April 14th, 2016

@GlenM my 1 year in session making baby steps

April 14th, 2016

@Crystalpeach

Congrats. :)

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User Profile: rifflynnane
rifflynnane April 14th, 2016

Life is only as 😊happy as you allow it to be. Never give up, not even 🔛 your worst of days. Nothing lasts forever, not even the 😊happy moments so don't be afraid to share how you feel.

April 14th, 2016

@rifflynnane

Awh, thanks for sharing this. :)

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User Profile: kennethfoss
kennethfoss April 14th, 2016

to be honest i dont know, but i think it helped me to realize im worth it and also to help with, alot.

April 14th, 2016

@kennethfoss

Hey sounds like there are still those small fragments of things which you've learned or have thought about. :) Keep it up.

April 14th, 2016

@kennethfoss

Hey sounds like there are still those small fragments of things which you've learned or have thought about. :) Keep it up.

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