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User Profile: GlenM
GlenM March 23rd, 2015

Congratulations! You made it to the next level on your growth path. Share with us the #1 thing you learned on this leg of your journey!

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User Profile: Dementya
Dementya July 7th, 2015

I learned some new stuff. Ihope everything will still be okay now.

Ive realised alot of intresting things will being on this site for the length i have done. And its absolutely incredible how many people feel so bad inside. And how many of us feel so alone, Crying and harming ourselves in un-imaginable ways. Some even taking their lives. I think its incredible that this website exists and its so so so... Amazing. Everybody who goes on this page is amazing.

If their is a single thing ive learnt its that

-IT GETS BETTER-

And im not lying... I came to this page because i was suicidal and insecure about my sexuality. And the amazing community here helped me so much. People in the chat are nothing but kind to one another and i cannot say thank you enough.

To those of you who are still sad:

When things look dark, You all need a reminder of what is truly important, You. You are amazing in your own way. No matter what anybody says, Doing what you enjoy is your freedom, Dont let anyone take that away from you.

If you think your parents hate you or dislike you or wont want to listen to what you have to say if you want to open up to them, Then remeber this, They brought you up, They hugged and kissed you when you cried, They held you in their arms as a child, They made the right decesions that ended up brining you, A absolutely gorgues and beatiful person into the world.

If you think you have no friends who understand you or like you, Well. You just came onto a siteFULL of people who love you and care for you. We are all friends here. Nobody judges anyone for anything. Do you have a problem? Just talk to us. 7CupsOfTea wont ever ever ever put you down. Because you are special..

Do you think you are ugly? Unliked? Or dislike something about you? Well. Somebody somewhere loves everylittle thing about you. Even if you cant see your perfections, Somebody can. Your parents love you. Your friends love you. Dont hate yourself because you can never change what you are. You are you and thats all. Move on. And love yourself.

"If you look to others for fulfillment, you will never be fulfilled. If your happiness depends on money, you will never be happy with yourself. Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the world belongs to you." A quote by lao tzu.

In conclusion:

Everybody in the world deserves a thousand hugs and a thousand kisses. If you want to be happy, Set some goals. 7CupsOfTea loves everybody, No matter who you are.

<3

User Profile: JustHoping11063
JustHoping11063 July 7th, 2015

I'm growing daily with the help of 7COT

User Profile: JustMe11
JustMe11 July 7th, 2015

I've become a better person

User Profile: tinyparadox
tinyparadox July 7th, 2015

sometimes helping others is just as rewarding as self-care.

User Profile: JustMe11
JustMe11 July 7th, 2015

I've also become so more open

User Profile: Pali
Pali July 7th, 2015

I got the PB award and learnt this Community is even more loving than I thoughtsmiley

User Profile: GlenM
GlenM OP July 14th, 2015

@Pali, well deserved!!! :)

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User Profile: TheHuggleMonster
TheHuggleMonster July 7th, 2015

:D

User Profile: IAmNathan
IAmNathan July 7th, 2015

I recently completed like step 12 in the growth path, which is pretty cool. Thanks to every listener here!

User Profile: lexigmore
lexigmore July 8th, 2015

I feel better about talking to people