Milestones or Steps Completed! Share and Celebrate Here :)

I've just reached level 80!

Step 450

Just a number for me, though ... I really dont think I accomplished much. 😔

I wish more Listeners would come and post in fellowship with and in support on fellow members on the discussion forums.

For Listener and member to come together in true fellowship where support and gratitude is sincere is my wish and my dream. Will it ever become a reality??

another milestone, yeah me... I have begun to embrace the advice to seek divorce, to give up on her. Makes me very sad, hope I am not just taking the easy path but if she doesn't care enough to engage and won't even see how she needs to change, let alone try to change, the hope is lost. Starting over is scary, starting over alone is crushing.

The best way to help with my anxiety is to change my perspective

evaluate your motivation to hold on

Hello 450 - learning how motivational partners can be helpful.

You'll reach a comfort zone in your life and start to wonder how you got there, how did you miss the sign posts that directed your real inner truth? Don't feel so guilty, you know when your meant to know and I guess that's the thing they don't teach you; when growing up, pain is inevitable but staying the same is a choice. Don't question why your feeling ready for something new, question why you stayed the same for so long.

~Nikki Rowe

The number one thing I have learned is that its not going to be easy at all. Even when I experience growth and victories, I have moments where I stumble back into my addictions. Yet every step forward and every new light I see is worth it.

For me. For those I care about. And for the life I can live in the future.

I learned that i am stronger than Inthought. :)

Step 120. I have learned that ut is ok not to be perfect and ask fir help. Everyone makes mistakes and I can get iver my mistakes and move on. I have learned that I feel better when I focus on coming up solutions and accept my mistakes.