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Lonely or Solitude??

User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 7th

Can anyone relate it with me ?? 。⁠◕⁠‿⁠◕⁠。

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@Ailuraphilelove8tear9

I do. I often feel like when I'm alone, I'm at peace. But I've realized that by choosing to be alone I'm being in my cozy bubble that I refuse to step out of. Then I get reminded about the importance of socializing. It's a never-ending dilemma.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 8th

@trueconfidant123

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 8th

@trueconfidant123

I really have to appreciate ur vision here, i liked it n I could see what you mean..!! Sometimes socializing, spending time ur friends n family helps rather than completely isolating ourselves, cutting off. But we also need that alone time, which helps us understand oneself more, rewire thought, heals. Maybe i think it's more abt balancing between these two sides are great 😊💐 

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@Ailuraphilelove8tear9

You're right. It's always about striking that perfect balance.

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 8th

@trueconfidant123

😁✨

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@Ailuraphilelove8tear9 *raises hand* Me, me, me. I absolutely love my peace! 

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I enjoy my time alone in my room. Just me, my thoughts, my own peace, the sound of my fan, and relaxing with no stress... I love it. ❤️ 

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 8th

@YourCaringConfidant

Yeahh, i can see crystal clear what you mean...!! Being alone helped out with plenty of things, especially when I'm living a abusive environment. My room is my cozy cornor, comfort zone, where i can finally breathe but it's not like i hate spending time with other's but i can be myself when I'm alone, the air suddenly feels lighter, the peace ❤️ indescribable feelings 😊

Thank you for sharing this with us 😊 *Hugs* ❤️ Love youuu lotte cupcake 🍰...!! 🤗

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 8th

@Ailuraphilelove8tear9

I am happy when I'm alone.

But that's because I know myself, I'm content with myself.

And my own space.

But I'm not hiding .

I love family time, time with friends, socialising, connection, not cutting myself off.

It's important to ask ourselves if we can do both, be alone happily and be in company happily 💙

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 8th

@Amanda84

I second this, being alone is peaceful at time but i don't think it works at the time. Being balanced is greater than abandoning ourselves xD. Both alone n socializing with friends n family are beneficial, n needed do a person i think 🤗. Appreciate your insights ❤️ 

Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️, *Hugs* 🤗 

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User Profile: YeeCafechino
YeeCafechino April 8th

@Ailuraphilelove8tear9 it's also sometimes for self-healing, refreshment, and regain the strength

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 8th

@cupofmacchi

That's so true ❤️ thanks for sharing ❤️


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User Profile: Vjviji7075
Vjviji7075 April 8th

It's Powerful, you become stronger more and more..

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 8th

@Vjviji7075

I would say Yes, it helps me to become a better version of mine ❤️ thank you for sharing 😊

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