Yes or No ?? 🍀

@AiluraTheCat Yes, I do forgive ppl, even the ones who hurt me deeply 🙂

why?
bcz there was a time when I held onto resentment, it only drained me. Every time I saw them, I’d feel bad again, even distancing myself (which is usually my coping mechanism) wasn't helpful because I was still wasting my time and energy thinking about 'em. I used to wonder, how did "I" let someone affect me this much???

then I realized smth important: bcz of that resentment I was still connected to 'em no matter how much distanced I was, apparently!!!
so I let that go, stopped thinking about it, by telling myself that they didn’t deserve that much space in my mind and not even a lil bit of my energy
for me, forgiveness means closing the door from my side forever, after that I don't cherish the good memories or anything related to 'em, I just remove that person from my system bcz in my mind if one's associated with a bad experience, no matter how much good we had before, everything loses its meaning to me!!! 

I ain't a very nice person like others who can forgive and be still nice, I won't take revenge bcz that ain't worth spending my time planning or thinking about, but can't be nice either, I just remove that person's access to me completely and move on. That's it :)
I forgive for my own peace only 🤍

Forgiving people who hurt you deeply isn't quite easy. However, when you do, you free yourself of the pain of being hurt. Speaking from experience though 😊

AiluraTheCat

Forgiving is difficult as it seems, but forgetting makes it almost impossible!

Yes, I forgive and I forgive without much lingering. Don't know why and how it happens, but that is the way it is for me.

I, find it rather impossible to forget, and that is where I get stuck.

@AiluraTheCat

Yes but  may be not immediately because even i am human i need some time to process. So with time i forgive them. As i dnt want to burden myself for so long.Because it is stressful to be under that weight. And it helps me in breaking the link also