Yes or No ?? 🍀
@AiluraTheCat
No. Even when I’m expected to forgive people for their grave mistakes, I still carry resentment towards them. I’d rather distance myself than maintain such relationships. It's hard for me to move on from the hurt and I don't have it in me to be on friendly terms with someone who has hurt me in the past.
@trueconfidant123
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@trueconfidant123
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@fossilfellow
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@trueconfidant123
it's somewhat similar for me. they come as they are a whole new person but it's just the same, and i'd hurt more. i used to forgive, but realized it drains me more.
(just my personal opinion/experience)
@trueconfidant123
I hear you, it makes perfect sense to me ❤️! It is always okay to stay away from those peoples who make u feel resentful, or any sort of discomfort. ❤️
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@AiluraTheCat
@AiluraTheCat
It's a yes/no for me.
Forgiveness is such a personal journey.
It's highly dependent on what they have done.
Forgiveness would be solely for my healing and not excusing the wrong 🧡
@Amanda84
Gorgeous 😊!
I see the depth here, and I wholeheartedly concur <3.
I don't accept them harming someone; forgiveness is something I do it for my own peace of mind ❤️
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@AiluraTheCat I'm not sure rn ❤️
@fossilfellow
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@Amanda84
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@fossilfellow
It's totally fine to be unsure 😊!
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@AiluraTheCat ❤️❤️
@AiluraTheCat Yes. Off bat, I really want to say no. Sometimes I even try to be hard and force myself to hold grudges, but eventually I forgive, heal, and move on past it. Forgiving is easier than me constantly being angry, bitter, resentful, and full of negative emotion. Sometimes I'm just tired of feeling that way. Plus, too-- I know that I am guilty of hurting people with my words and saying things I don't mean. Sometimes my anger and sadness makes me say things in my mind I really don't mean. When I do, I want to be forgiven... so I have to be willing to forgive too. Now if I am still bringing hurt up to the person then that's a sign I haven't really forgiven. Give me time and in time I will forgive and heal and never speak of it again.
(Note: I'm talking my regular hurt, saying things you don't mean, mistakes here and there, etc... not that deep rooted, beyond, inhumane, evil, sick stuff... definitely not talking about that.)
@YourCaringConfidant
This is really relatable. 😴 Twin!
N I used to think like this, put myself in their shoes, and try to figure out what it was that caused them to do this for someone else. As you mentioned, I have made thousands of mistakes in my life, including hurting someone accidentally or perhaps on purpose (I'm not sure), but I always carry regret and guilt inside of me. I ask for forgiveness, and when we ask seek forgiveness, our intention is to be forgiven right? and when I can make mistakes, so can everyone else!
Therefore, I always tend to forgive people for their actions and give them another chance to make amends ❤️!
I personally have admiration in your reflection to this for a reason 😊
Thank you for sharing your opinion here ❤️!
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Ailura, I’m not sure where you get these beautiful ideas of a post but every post tells a story about you. From soft to courage to being a beautiful girl. Thank you for being you.
Yes I do forgive people who hurt me. Resentment hurts me more. Its out of my character. I feel ugly inside. But I have learned to stay away from those who had hurted me to set boundaries and protect my heart. There’s “enough” for everything, am I right?! 😘
@LadyInSilence Wonderfully said. ❤️
@LadyInSilence
Aww sweetie! Thank youso much for your acknowledgement and your kind words to me. It mean's so much than you could think 😊! and you are a beautiful soul too!
Yeah..!! I absolutely agree with that, staying away from anyone or anything to protect our inner peace is a good move, I'd say 😊! it is totally acceptable and inevitable! Yeah, resentment is something i struggle with everyday life, it is not easy to ensure as we say.
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Absolutely. Letting go is where the healing starts. Even when it is difficult. Although forgiving is a process in its self, it's not linear, and I guess nothing ever is linear in life. But letting go is important.
@WriterMA
Hey, writer! 😊
I completely agree with you 🤗! Letting go is not linear like anything else in life. I understand that it will be difficult for someone to forgive and let go of things that have broken us for a long time. However, it hurts more to hold onto grudges than to let go and the process that results in ❤️
@AiluraTheCat Forgive but not forget~ I'll remember this pain~~~
@Jzjzzzzzzz
I can relate this <3 someone wound are stay unhealed forever !
Exactly my way in life..
@AiluraTheCat I tend to view the hurt as the growth to purify my soul.
@butterflyjie86
Whoo!! Not everyone would have this mindset... I appreciate your wide look here! "A problem is a path to grow stronger." 😊
Always forgive.
@DutchMike
Dutch (つ≧▽≦)つ !!
Yeahh, can't agree more with you 😊! *hugs*
Yes, life is too short to carry such resentment. However, I wouldn't forget how they acted.
@PeachesAndOranges
I hear you, we tend to forgive but it is absolute hard to forget what they have done, "Mistakes are forgivable but not always forgettable"
Thank ls for sharing this with us 😊