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❤ ❤ ❤ If You Have To Appreciate One Advice/Tip Which Helped To Improve You, What Is It? ❤ ❤ ❤

User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver August 28th, 2017

❤ Hello Lovely People of 7 Cups Of Tea ❤

I hope you are doing good and had a nice weekend.

We are human beings with a long life journey. In this life, we face struggles and challenges. Woe experience things and emotions. We give advice based on our experiences. We get advice from experienced people around us.

But, in the amidst of all advice and tips we get, there used to be one advice OR tip which always helped or improved our thoughts or made our life better.

So, I was wondering "What's yours?"

I would love to learn from you that one tip or advice which worked most for you!

Take out your one minute and appreciate that one Tip/Advice which helped you to become better! Here with US!

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User Profile: Softhearted975
Softhearted975 July 23rd, 2019

Learn that's it's ok to take of yourself sometimes and say no to others!

User Profile: AbbyHarris1976
AbbyHarris1976 July 24th, 2019

The best advice that I had gotten came from onr of my friends here in Chicago who told me never to make anyone a PRIORITY in my life if they only consider me and my friendship an OPTION in theirs. yes

User Profile: DaveMcGrath
DaveMcGrath July 24th, 2019

It's ok to be wrong, its ok to admit you are wrong, its ok to learn from being wrong, and its ok not to hate yourself for being wrong.

Mistakes happen, the bigger mistake is to not learn something from it and grow from it.

Also, love yourself, you can't love others till you truly love yourself.

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User Profile: OnlyDarkness
OnlyDarkness September 4th, 2023

@DaveMcGrath Very Well put Kind Sir .🤔🧐

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User Profile: AbbyHarris1976
AbbyHarris1976 September 29th, 2019

One of my listener friends told me recently that

User Profile: blueOrange9370
blueOrange9370 September 4th, 2023

This won't last forever.

User Profile: OnlyDarkness
OnlyDarkness September 4th, 2023

@ASilentObserver To stop being so Hard on myself and take baby steps in trying to achieve my goals. Not like aI can take normal steps aways 🤭🤔

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP September 4th, 2023

@OnlyDarkness really good one darkness. Reflecting on why these goals are important may help you feel more compassion for yourself in the process. You are self-aware that baby steps are better than normal steps. Taking things one day at a time often makes the load feel lighter.

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User Profile: OnlyDarkness
OnlyDarkness September 4th, 2023

@ASilentObserver Hey , I’ve got a little Sad news to you and the others I chat with. My condition is not getting better but worse . I’m having seizures all the time now and chest pains also. Please help me pass the Word because I told two other members I know TheGeraldExperience and that was yesterday. I also told someone just before chatting to you or sending you this but I can’t remember already. I asked them to pass the word too. I also told them that if this is another example of what’s happening to me I’m sorry for the inconvenience ✌️Out .

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy September 4th, 2023

@OnlyDarkness

If you don't mind I bless you in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou September 4th, 2023

"The inevitable truth is, you're on your own. At the end of the day, you'll have to muster the courage to pick yourself up by yourself because no one's going to do that for you always, there will be some day you'll just need to do it by yourself and that'll be the most freeing feeling in the world because if there's anyone who has your back for sure always, it's *you*, do yourself a favor and own your back every step of the way. Do you, for you, by you because *you* deserve being a better you and doing better by you."💛

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP September 4th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou That advice reminds me of the importance of self-reliance during challenging times. Having an inner source of courage and support can truly be freeing. I'm glad to see you found a message that empowered your strength and resilience within.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou September 4th, 2023

@ASilentObserver

Hehe it's an advice from me to me, Obziee lol, thank youu, self-reliance is all I've ever known and grateful for. I appreciate your encouraging comments always!❤

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP September 4th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou that is a great advice which I believe we all need as a reminder from time to time. so thank you for sharing it with us.

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User Profile: AutiBoy
AutiBoy September 4th, 2023

In the end, there's only one person who can help you that's you. You have to want it enough to work for it.

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP September 4th, 2023

@AutiBoy That advice captures the importance of internal motivation and personal responsibility for growth. What was it about that message that resonated with you or stood out?


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User Profile: AutiBoy
AutiBoy September 4th, 2023

Short answer because it made me look at myself and how I can help myself.


Long answer

My friend told me that at a tough time and it's what got me through it. It stood out because it made me see that I got to work for it but also choose what battles I wanted to fight. I think of this now and automatically look at what I can do now and what I can do in the near future.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 September 4th, 2023

@ASilentObserver to change the world, all you need to do is one kind deed a day

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP September 4th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 That's a thoughtful tip. Doing small kind acts each day can indeed make a positive difference in the world. What feelings come up for you when focusing on helping others?


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User Profile: blissfulTouch29
blissfulTouch29 September 4th, 2023

Wow i have a lot of advice that helped me but one of the many that stuck in my head is from my former 10th and 11th grade spanish teacher would be treat yourself as a friend and take it one day at a time no more or less than anyone else and your thoughts become the belief become the truth.

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP September 6th, 2023

@blissfulTouch29 That's a thoughtful reminder from your teacher. Treating yourself with compassion during challenging times can be helpful. What feelings have you noticed as you've reflected on their words?


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User Profile: blissfulTouch29
blissfulTouch29 September 6th, 2023

@ASilentObserver

happy

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