What's On Your Mind?
Hello Lovely Peeps of 7CupsOfTea
This morning, suddenly my Listener account got unapproved. IDK why? Then, I submitted review and account restored but found that my all forum posts created and shared by you all seem like deleted. Disappointing thing for me!
But, then I thought that good thing is that I got my account restored, i.e. I'm with you right here, right now! I got an opportunity!
So, I am grateful for this today!
What's On Your Mind?
Share below with us!
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Rain drops and roses and w...
Thinking about the cold weather
I'm not really sure how this all works yet as I am fairly new and just trying to work everything out. But i've been feeling really down and can't stop thinking about the idea that nobody wants me around, and why I always seem to lose everyone when I talk to them.
@Summer29
Sorry that seems to happen to you. I have sort of the same issue, My therapist said it was the way that I worded what was said.
So I am kind of on a silence ram with everybody. I can understand what you feel. Hope you know that you have friends here?
If I can be of any help to you, I am here. Hope you feel better soon
@scarletPear1945 Hey, thanks for replying and sorry to hear that this is or has happened to you too. Do you have any tips that I could possibly look into or how I could change my thinking towards it all? Recently, ive just tried to put my focus on other things and just distract myself. Yes, I have come across a lot of lovely people on here, it's be a great experience so far, thanks :)
@Summer29
Hey Summer
I wish I had a good answer for you but I don't. I was told that my thought process was defective. That my descriptions were demeaning and abusive and that I was being judgemental. This is with my therapist, not the members here. So that has kind of pushed me into silent mode. I am confused and really don't know how to communicate very well with her. Our words and definitions of words are totally different and we keep butting heads..
Sorry, I just shut down for a while and had not been posting. I hope that someone better than me can be of help to you. We can keep talking to each other. and sharing. I don't want to hurt anyone or say the wrong things to make anyone feel as I do.
@scarletPear1945 aww, im so sorry to hear that this has happened to you and that someone with that power made you feel even worse than what you already were. I guess that kind of job can be tough sometimes and that people can interperate words differently, which makes things not work out at times. I've always believed that there is always someone out there who you can talk to though, whether they can help you solve a problem, or if they are just there to distract you or talk things through.
Please don't give up all hope though, I believe in you. Stay Strong, we can get through this together <3
@Summer29
Summer thanks. I don't know what to do with those words that were spoken to me seeing as they came from someone whose job is to listen and be of help. I really hate that I trusted the person first of all. Which does tell me that I have a problem knowing how much to share and when to cut it off even with the professionals Just makes my trust issues magnify.
@scarletPear1945
Sorry for such late reply's, im still working all this out and keep forgetting to check my notifications and all! And I know how you feel about the whole trusting other people situation and knowing or not knowing what to say and when to say certain things. I have the same problem, I have trsut issues due the amount of stuff ive been through with people yet sometimes I still can't control my self complete to keep certain things left unsaid and I sometimes still say them anyway.
@Summer29
I do understand just what you are saying. Finding the ability to trust and to be able to be our selves is so hard at times. I am sure we are not alone in this. Hoping time will bring about our changes to help.
@scarletPear1945 @scarletPear1945 Thank you scarletPearl and wishing you all the best to yoursef too! Things are never easy when you have no one or it's hard to trust anyone, I hope good things can come to the both of us <3
@Summer29 Welcome : ) I'm sorry you've felt this way.. I hope this communitty can help you going forward! Hugs
@Serg77 Thank you <3
@Summer29 @Summer29 i hope you're feeling better these days. i've often felt what you are describing and its all a lie our minds create. We cannot assume that others don't want us around. most likely people have their own worries and are wrapped around their own problems but to us it seems that its about us when it's not. Next time this happens remember that the only person that can make you happy is you. if no one is around you still have yourself. treat yourself to something nice. :)
@orchard9786 Thanks for the advice! Yeah ive noticed that I tend to over think of lot of things and then just feel guilty that everything is also my fault and I take the blame for everything when ever something happens.
Sand...take me to the sand, where I belong.
In need of a getaway, I hate the thought that I can be responsible for someone elses sadness just as easily as I am responsible for their happiness. I learned feelings are out of your control. And its okay to be confused sometimes. Trying to trust the process and let it be what it is.
@sincerelyrose
That is what happens when you love or let yourself be loved. The key is to not abuse and be honest about your feelings.
I remembered a line in a manga I was reading before, it said that life is like a raging river and we are in the middle. We need something to tie us in place or else we will just be swept in.
I am sooooo mad at my lab partners rn they just stuck me with doing the entire calculations and analysis portion and like im not the most upstanfing person but i at least try to do something there were like 2 people in my group who didnt really do ANYTHING usefull like cmon guys
@Treehiros :/ sorry to hear that. I've been in that situation before as a student. That is always the downside of group work. If the work is unequal, try to verbalize this to them and hopefully you can spread it out. Otherwise when I've taken the bulk of the work, I've always learned more from the assignment and moved on better for it. Wish you the best!
I am standing on crossroads
Will I, or won't I, get this position that I really want. urgg.
sleep
