I lost my dad
i lost my dad on November 13 2023 from massive heart been hardest month of my life and the hardest was thanksgiving and his birthday but hard is going be Christmas and like miss piece of are family these holidays and my dad one of important person in my life and miss him so much crazy say but don't have dad anymore for me had 40 years with him cherish every memories have with my dad and its sad that my niece and nephew have kind of relationship that me and brother had i wish could see them grow up but going step up be that person in their life's and the pain never go away and do my best be good person in the world for dad
@countrygirl9988
@PetiteSouris thanks for that and means so much to me and been hard month half for me and family lose my dad and my nephew on birthday Saturday that going be hard day for my nephew and brother and I wish was here but he not ever coming back again and miss my dad everyday
@countrygirl9988
im so sorry about the loss of your dad. I can certainly understand why the last month has been really hard for you with all the holidays. The first year is always the hardest. My best friends dad passed away 2 years ago in December and she still misses him like crazy. Remember that everything you feel is normal. And it’s ok to let the feelings out.
Kristynsmama
@Kristynsmama thanks been month half seen my dad died seen think about that day in my head rest of my life the holiday really hard on 13th January will be two months he been gone really hard on me and family what change me seen my dad in grave that made different person to their day in my life and have PTSD from my dad death and i have new role in my family that have nephew and niece never forget my dad and he will always be are hearts forever
I also lost a parent 2 years ago. It is the worst imaginable loss and while it still punches me in the gut, it does get easier. Hang in there and like you said, the best way to honor them is to live life to the fullest and try to make them proud. ❤️
l@NightNurseNightmares sorry about your parents lost my dad month in half ago. I want to make him proud in my life and be more closes to my family and be more health in my life. I want live long live and memories live on through me.mom,brother,niece.nephew.my sister-in-law and my man.
seen Christmas over with and new year is here I think about my dad how feel about this coming year and I would he feel about are family right now the hardest days are Monday and Friday because Monday he died and Friday, he was buried at the cetermery and break my heart every week because of that I will never get over his death and have PTSD because what tragic event of his death I seen him be wheel to ambulance I heard the CPR machine reading about 10 minutes later that told me and mom that he was gone and have my family at hospital seen him lay in that bed died change you forever see my brother cry made my heart breaking and got close because of are dad death and then seen him in that casket change me touch his cold hands see my dad in that pink wrangler shirt and black wrangler pants know he not coming back anymore what made me sad see my niece is 2 and nephew is 5 see there grandpa in that casket and funeral home made hurt so bad and have going outside because have pain attack of my dad death and see in grave hurt so bad and next step tombstone that be get soon for dad that going hurt thing have do but me and brother got do that for my dad and people still have dad cherish him tell him you love him and spent time with dad and wish my dad still here but not here anymore I love you pops and miss so much I going make proud of me
@Clarezg thanks it is going be years before move on my dad was my world and my first love in my life and miss my dad smile and miss his voice everyday but luck to have two video that dad record of him talking before died and so many photos of my dad always can look at and I visit my dad grave every Sunday after Sunday lunch and see him every holiday and his birthday and feel more closes to my dad and he going miss my nephew birthday on Saturday and feel bad for my family miss all the holidays and family things in are life's
@countrygirl9988
im glad you are finding ways to stay close to your dad. That is really important in the grieving process.
@Kristynsmama thanks still grieving over dad on January 13 be two months seen my dad died on January 17 be two months seen been buried been hardest two months of my life and my family life and I miss my dad every day and legacy live through me and brother and niece and nephew rest of are life's and he amazed father and awesome grandpa and going take time heal for whole family and me too
@countrygirl9988 Sorry to hear about your loss, may God gives you the ability to bear with this irreparable loss.
@alwayspositive007 thank for kind message going take time move pass lose my dad in mind I grieving rest of my life for dad most important person in my life and miss his voice miss his smile and laughter and miss his advice and miss everything about my dad been two month already going more time to heal from these thing father day and my birthday are going be hard month of life that be June went have deal that and holidays so harder for me right now and miss him and I love him so much he will be in my heart 4ever
@countrygirl9988
hi!
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're strong and I'm sure you can get through this. I believe in you. When you feel like you're on your own, or just especially down, remember that people all over who see your post love and support you<3
@erinanana thanks been hard two months for me and family but we get through it one day at time and miss my dad every day and love with all my heart he we be miss for rest of my life and his legacy live on through are family and we never forgotten his memories of my dad and grieving for rest of my life not having my dad in my life and had 40 years with my pops he raise amazed children and best grandpa any kid could have and his death haunted me for rest of my life
@countrygirl9988 hey , m really really v v sorry to know that. and i know words dont have that power to take away your pain. what you are going through is a pain that you cant even run away from, no matter how much u wan. when theres no escape, then live the pain to its core.. feel every hurt ..every ache..cry yell.. take it all out..but once done, remember your dad is there somewhere.. its universe.. its all energy.. and hes seeing you.. do you think he would have wanted u to live a life like this? if you really cherish the memories of your dad, then remember him with smile..recall the good moments ..and live the live that your dad would want for u. its all destiny..me telling u this ..perhaps its also a sign of god.. a message from your dad.. embrace it,,you have all the power of world within yourself . hugs u warmly ..take good care of yourself
@life30foryou thanks kind advice your right my dad went not me be sad and cry for him I love my dad and miss my dad so much I have good memories of dad and remember all advice my dad give me, and my dad raise be good person and I know watch over me he is my guard angel for rest of my life and I will make in proud and he will be in my heart 4ever
