Loss of a pet
Lost my cat today and it's 3am in the morning...I can't text my friends right so decided to download this app...haven't feeling well at all..all of his memories are floating infront of y eys
@quickwittedPlane8377 😥😥 awww honey I'm so sorry 😥 looking a loved one is so very hard😥 I'm glad you found 7 cups, we have a very supportive safe place here 💖I'm here if you need to talk 💖 hugs you tightly 💖
Thank you for your kind words.
Can we talk?
@quickwittedPlane8377 yeah of course we can💖 we can talk safely here 💖 sits beside you and wipes away your tears, hugs you tightly 💖 grieving is one of the hardest things we can ever go through, I'm here for you 💖 what was your cats name?
Thank you...I couldn't sleep all night and it's 4:30 in the morning...
His name was oreo
@quickwittedPlane8377 awww oreo is a cute name💖 in so sorry for the late reply, I'm a resident in a carehome so things can get busy here🙁 sorry. Are you home alone?? Loosing a pet is unbelievably painful😥 I'm so sorry sweetie
Eh no you don't say sorry...it's fine...I was so sad that I was about to text someone who doesn't talk to me anymore but I stopped myself from doing so...
No I stay with my parents. They were awakened all night too.
@quickwittedPlane8377 it hurts really bad doesn't it🙁 did you get any sleep at all?? Have you eaten anything today? How are you coping right now? I wish I was there to give you a real hug💖
Yes I've slept in the afternoon...idk I'm just trying to distract myself by doing stuffs but now it's night again.
Thank you.
@quickwittedPlane8377 night is always the hardest🙁 I'm glad you managed to get some rest though 💖 do you want tell me about your cat? Maybe your happy memories? Or we can talk about something else if you like💖
Ikr. The thing is I have had two cats...I lost one now I'm afraid for the other one he was all good entire day but now it seems like he's sad or down.
@quickwittedPlane8377 awww animals grieve like we do🙁 just try give him extra love while he grieves to💖 and give yourself extra love to💖 remember there's no time limit for grieving so don't ever feel like you need to pretend to be ok 💖 crying is good for you 💖
Yes sure I'll surely take care of that...yk sometimes I wonder how different the world online and the real world is...in this world no one would say that it's okay to grieve they'll only want you to suppress your emotions underneath and pretend like nothing happend
@quickwittedPlane8377 yep! There's something very special about 7 cups, I guess we've all been through or still going through the same kind of things, so people here are more understanding of others feelings💖 so never be afraid to reach out here 💖
Sure I will try to...how are you btw? Sorry I kept talking about myself only...you can tell me about yourself too
@quickwittedPlane8377 I'm so sorry. I lost my cat before too. It never gets easier. I hope you are taking care of yourself, you deserve this too. What's your favorite memory of your furry friend?
Yes I'm trying to...
I only memory that is etched to my heart is how he used to come to me whenever I return from work...he used to sleep with me...all snuggled up I miss him so bad
Btw I love your name.
@quickwittedPlane8377 awww that's a sweet memory of oreo to cling on to💖 how are you feeling today? How was work?? It's ok to talk about yourself🙂💖 that's why I'm here to try support you💖 you deserve all the kindness you can get right now 💖 but I am ok💖 looking forward to Halloween then my birthday then xmassssssss😁🎅 I love this time of year 💖 gives you a hug💖💖 look after yourself ok?
I'm trying to get better...I am keeping myself busy....
Happy to hear that....have fun the whole season
@quickwittedPlane8377
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your pets. I have lost a beloved pet before, with whom I had a very close bond. I know it is rough. I hope today was a bit better. It takes time, and that is ok. If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to reach out. I believe I have some resources I can share that could hopefully be helpful. Peace be with you.
Yes I'm trying to...
What kind of resources?
It would be much help if you share. Thank you
@quickwittedPlane8377 how's everything doing in your part of the world??
I'm doing fine...just a bit lonely other than that everything's oky
@quickwittedPlane8377 I'm glad your ok'ish💖 this is a great site when your feeling lonely💖 the chatrooms and games/icecbreaker forums help me so much with lonliness💖 maybe you should check them out💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗
