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User Profile: Kristynsmama
Kristynsmama January 2nd, 2024

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 2nd, 2024

@Kristynsmama I don't know. I had my son 12 years ago now, back then I just wanted to keep him safe, but I couldnt. I failed him. Now I can't have children. But I dream about him being here with me. I get sad of what could have been. I love him very much ❤

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User Profile: Kristynsmama
Kristynsmama OP January 2nd, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

i really empathize with this because this is how I feel too.  You didn’t fail your son though.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 3rd, 2024

@Kristynsmama my son didn't die of natural causes😞 I couldn't protect him. I did fail

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User Profile: Kristynsmama
Kristynsmama OP January 3rd, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Even if you couldn’t protect him, I still don’t think you failed him because I know that you would have protected him if you could have.  Your desire was to protect him and you loved him more than anything.  That doesn’t mean failure in my eyes.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 3rd, 2024

@Kristynsmama I was only 11 years old, and um, I was a slave to a bad group people adults. There were lots of child slaves there. My owners didn't let him live very long😞 I hope he knows that I love him

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User Profile: Kristynsmama
Kristynsmama OP January 3rd, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

he does.  And I’m so incredibly sorry for the pain you had to endure.  I remember you telling me this once before.  I am even more confident that you didn’t fail him.  You did everything you could just to survive.

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User Profile: sincereTriangle4731
sincereTriangle4731 January 3rd, 2024

hello, I’m new. I lost my best friend from childhood in a freak accident may 2022. I know it’s been some time now but I still can’t imagine my future without her. Like life moves forward, I’m moving with it but when I would take steps I always knew she’d be with me sharing my life with me. So I guess my answer is all of my future plans seem so much less exciting or fun or substantive because I know she’s not in them

User Profile: Adylla2012
Adylla2012 January 3rd, 2024

@Kristynsmama I just lost my grandma 12/23. Losing her has actually made me more hopeful for the future. I feel like she is with me, guiding me, and supporting me. She was always my number one fan, and I want to change my life for her. I'm struggling with the loss, but somehow I know I will be okay.

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User Profile: Kristynsmama
Kristynsmama OP January 3rd, 2024

@Adylla2012

i am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandma.  I didn’t know her obviously, but she sounds like she was a special lady.  I’m happy to hear you feel her with you. 

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