People can't know if you don't tell them...
This must be the 2nd or 3rd post about this but...
Everyday I listen to people (out of 7cups, not talking of anybody here lol) talking on how full of love, proud and caregiving they are over who they love and at the other hand how rejected, unwanted and unloved they feel.
Thing is: do you comunicate your love? Do you comunicate those special, important people that you love them? Do you say to them that you care about them and that they matter? And if so, do you act acordingly?
Or... When you kid reachs you to show something you don't pay attention and push them into that gray zone of feeling rejected and unloved? Just one example of many.
People can't know what you think and how ypu feel if you don't comunicate. Think about it.
*big brain meme*
@eaterofwords85
I think in many cases it is more then telling someone but showing them. My partner tells me but it means little if the actions do not match ....... I do not feel it.
words need action behind it.
@toughTiger6481
Just like the example.
@eaterofwords85
A huge source of problem is lack of communication skills and it can cause big problems. People aren't mind readers so you can't expect to get what you want if you don't tell them.
I do that everyday and yet people never acknowledge so xD
@Stormandshelter
Yeah, they must wanna listen to it too.
Sometimes people are busy chasing what they don't have without appreciating what they do. So, one sided efforts don't really work.
@eaterofwords85 Exactly 😊 communication is important, we need to let people know what they mean to us , instead of assuming they just know , celebrate love everyday because you just don't know the gift it is 😊