am I saying too much?

Are we ever in the wrong with those midnight texts that our anxious minds made us send, maybe it was just anger I don't know. I feel like we regret way to many things, sure we should try and be as kind as we can but why don't we have the right to spam someone to ask them why they hurt our feelings and if they even know they did that. I don't know this might come acros as a post from a troubled mind but this happens to me from time to time because of my anxious mind, don't leave me behind with unawnsered qeustions just before I wanted to go to sleep, it's already hard enough. After a sleepless night I will wonder if my 20 messages may have come across as anoying to you because that certaily wasn't who I was trying to be, but than I remember that you actually had a decent rest while I was batteling anxiety