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User Profile: InsightfulPhoenix
InsightfulPhoenix January 12th, 2024

hello everyone and good evening🤗

I just wanted to have discussion on changes. I know throughout the year there is always a good change and a bad change. Good Changes provide us with positivity and warm and Bad changes usually creates some tension with ourselves and those around us. 

1. What do you consider a Good Change or Bad Change?

2. How does this change make you feel and why?

3. What makes you decide if it is a Good Change or Bad Change?

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User Profile: bouncyMusic133
bouncyMusic133 January 14th, 2024

@InsightfulPhoenix

thank you for your forum post. please see my response to your questions:

1. What do you consider a Good Change or Bad Change?

This is a good question. I feel that something good to others may be consider bad and some bad may be consider good. But, for me personally, good change is when I am able to learn new skills and being able to build on my knowledge. Bad change is when it does not help anyone and no one benefit from it.

2. How does this change make you feel and why?

A change that I make that can benefit myself and everyone makes me feel good. This makes me feel good because I feel that I am able to make a difference in someone else life and my life as well. 

3. What makes you decide if it is a Good Change or Bad Change?

I feel that this is a good change because I believe in the moto of "giving it forward" or "you do good and good things will come to you". So when I make changes that will affect the people around me and myself positively, that is a good change to me. 

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User Profile: InsightfulPhoenix
InsightfulPhoenix OP January 14th, 2024

@bouncyMusic133 I appreciate you being so versatile with your response, showing that there is difference in everyone's opinion of a good change and a bad change That is a great skill to have when it comes to dealing critical thinking questions or even discussion questions. Another thing to add is I enjoyed reading your response 🤗. I am happy to see that good changes for you inquire new learning capabilities, new opportunities and learning on a wide spectrum. Thank you for participating 🥰

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User Profile: Holmes33
Holmes33 January 14th, 2024

@InsightfulPhoenix a good change for me is through which I gain a lesson and for bad which doesn't bring me anything 

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User Profile: InsightfulPhoenix
InsightfulPhoenix OP January 14th, 2024

That is a good view point to acknowledge! It's always good to know if lessons were learned. Thank you for your thoughts on these discussion questions @Holmes33

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User Profile: YourCaringConfidant
YourCaringConfidant January 14th, 2024

1. What do you consider a Good Change or Bad Change?

A good change is something that gets me out of my comfort zone. Often times, I am uncomfortable and the change may be foreign to me. However, once I accept it and embrace it and if it makes me grow as a person, then that's considered good to me. A bad change would be the opposite of that. It just does nothing but disrupt my life.

2. How does this change make you feel and why?

I'm a creature of habit and don't really like changes that I am unfamiliar with. Sometimes I am complacent and content and just do not want to stretch all the time. Of course, part of me knows that changes are part of life and the quicker I am to accept things beyond my control then the better I can grow as a person. 

3. What makes you decide if it is a Good Change or Bad Change?

My decision on good change v. bad change depends on my mood and the mental state I am in. If I'm not receptive or willing to accept it, no matter how good the benefits of a change may very well be, I will deem it as bad. 

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User Profile: InsightfulPhoenix
InsightfulPhoenix OP January 14th, 2024

@YourCaringConfidant I understand being a creature of habit. Thank you for bringing up that standpoint, not many understand how it effects those that thrive off of routine and constant habits. This is very important to highlight, thank you for your participation and your views💕

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User Profile: Holmes33
Holmes33 January 14th, 2024

Good changes make me feel stronger whereas bad changes also help me feel better coz it means I have room to grow

User Profile: Holmes33
Holmes33 January 14th, 2024

to me learning process is what lets me know if it good or bad

User Profile: sunsetparadise16
sunsetparadise16 January 22nd, 2024

@InsightfulPhoenix these are good, subjective and insightful questions. It involves considering a range of factors and understanding the individual's values, goals, and mindset. To me, it has to do with the impact on general well-being, mine and everyone who is affected by it. 

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User Profile: InsightfulPhoenix
InsightfulPhoenix OP January 22nd, 2024

Thank you for the compliment and taking the time to answer the questions providing your view point on a bad change and good change @sunsetparadise16

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