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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener January 9th, 2023

The second week of January is here, the busy season is over, time to go back to work and school or maybe even write a few more exams. January is sort of the “Monday” of the year, year end parties and celebrations are over and it’s back to the day to day and the next big holiday is often months away for many of us.


So how is your January going so far? What do you like about January? What are some things you could do this week to make your week better?


Good news about January though, that means Pride month is only 5 months away, plenty of time to sew myself a new rainbow dress right? So while it may seem early to start planning, if you were to get an early start on celebrating pride, what is something fun you might want to create, plan or save up for?


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[Image depicts spools of sewing thread in different colours arranged like a rainbow.]



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User Profile: MelodyoftheOcean
MelodyoftheOcean January 9th, 2023

@EmotionsListener

Honestly, my January hasn't been the best start into the year, but the post still made my day. Looking forward to pride month is always a good thing ^^

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP January 10th, 2023

@MelodyoftheOcean

Sorry to hear that January hasn't gotten the year off to a good start for you so far. Hopefully it will get turned around somehow. I'm glad the post gave you a boost or at least a giggle. Thanks for checking in!

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User Profile: blitheSun94
blitheSun94 January 10th, 2023

Welp, considering I’m in surgery recovery until February, my January has been…different, but mostly optimistic. I’m looking forward to working from home and returning to exercise when I’m ready. I feel fortunate to have a new diagnosis and the value knowing brings to lifestyle choices. I am blessed to not have to experience a financial gap as a result. New year, new me - or so they say. Since I don’t attend large gatherings on principle I may not be able to answer this question, although maybe this year that will change. I do have an elaborate rainbow boa that I need to wear somewhere.


Thanks for writing, Emo! 🌈

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP January 10th, 2023

@blitheSun94

This new year has certainly brought changes with it for you! Hopefully once healing is further along they will ultimately feel like good changes. It can be hard to be patient while healing sometimes, but it sounds like you have a good attitude toward recovery and making the time to take the time your body needs. I am very glad that financial pressures won't be determining your healing timeline!

As to large gatherings I can understand not wanting to attend, I am sure I just secretly (or not so secretly) love any excuse to sew myself a new dress particularly a rainbow one! Also who says you have to go to a big event to throw on that elaborate rainbow boa and wear your Pride? Sometimes I like to "dress up to stay in!"

Thank you for checking in!

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User Profile: blitheSun94
blitheSun94 January 10th, 2023

@EmotionsListener

Very wisdomous, indeed. Thank you for your words my dear friend. I do have a positive outlook despite being diagnosed with a chronic condition. I always look forward to connecting with you in the forums. You must have a dozen dresses by now! I am more of a yoga pants and flowly top kinda girl. Last year we attended pride at our favorite gay bar which also happens to be the same place we met. ☺️

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP January 11th, 2023

@blitheSun94

Finding the good in a bad situation is a skill that can serve you well, I'm glad you seem to have and value that skill.

Well, I do own a lot of dresses, the rainbow one I made a few years ago was sort of "making the best out of the disappointing fabric I found' it would be cool to actually make a nice one.

Going to the place where you met sounds like a lovely way to spend Pride. I wonder if my dear one would like to hang out at that bus station where she stepped off that bus and forever changed my life.

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User Profile: lyricalAngel70
lyricalAngel70 January 10th, 2023
January has been great as I expected ♥️@EmotionsListener
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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP January 11th, 2023

@lyricalAngel70

I'm glad your January is going well so far! I hope it continues to be great and get even better for you!

Thank you for checking in.

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User Profile: lyricalAngel70
lyricalAngel70 January 11th, 2023

Thank you so much for such a lovely post

Have a great year ahead!
@EmotionsListener

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User Profile: antico
antico January 14th, 2023

@EmotionsListener

a new year, a new me, after a long battle, going through a mental breakdown, depression and suicide attempts , visiting a dozen of specialists, I finally arrived here, on my very 1st day of HRT

I look at it as a reflection of how my life changed.. last year this time I was a miserable man, with no perspective on life, today, I'm a happy and thriving woman, hopeful for the future and excited for things to come.. I would've never imagined this scenario in my wildest dreams

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User Profile: blitheSun94
blitheSun94 January 16th, 2023

@antico

I very much relate to this having been married to a man and now finally, a woman.

Never would have imagined in my wildest dreams.

Hoping for many more good days ahead for you. 🌈

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP January 17th, 2023

@blitheSun94

Glad that you have found dreams you wouldn't have dared dream as well! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

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EmotionsListener OP January 17th, 2023

@antico

It's amazing how much life can change and turn around in ways we never dared imagine let alone expect. Hopefully the future continues to give you good surprises and more realized dreams. Thank you for checking in!

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