Guys help I'm questioning my sexuality againnn.
Idk if I'm Omnisexual (currently) or pansexual, like I want to recognize the gender of the individual I'm with so I'm not gender-blind, but I don't have any preferences and love all genders if it's binary or outside the binary, and Omnisexual's definition is attraction to all genders but with prefrences (@_@)
@Z4IN
It sounds like you are struggling with a dilemma that is a big issue for you. Not knowing can bring a lot of anxiety and that's OK. Is there a particular rush to come to a decision or conclusion on this?
You are unique. There is no one like you in the world. Nor will there ever be. Must you fit that uniqueness into a particular pigeon hole/label, or can you just be you, in all your wonderful specialness?
Of course, belonging to a recognised group can bring a lot of security. But there's also security that comes from within from knowing that you are perfect and wonderfully unique just as you are.
Here's a thought. What about separating the two things: Questioning and Sexuality?
Questioning to me suggests doubt and uncertainty. How much do you believe in yourself? Do you trust that you know what is right for you? Could focusing on believing in yourself help you more than focusing on a particular question or belonging to a particular group?
Sexuality. From what I've seen, most people spend their whole life learning about their sexuality. Once again I wonder what is the rush to define it as one thing now, when you have your whole life?
I hope you find the certainty you are looking for. But as nothing in life is certain, I hope you won't struggle with it forever. There is peace in accepting the uncertainty of life.