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I'm never going to find love

User Profile: shyWalker5389
shyWalker5389 November 30th, 2025

I don't know if this is the right place for this; if not, please tell me the right one.

I'm 20 years old, trans FTM, and pre-T. I've been dating this girl for a year, but she broke up with me a couple of weeks ago, and I've been feeling horrible since. I feel like I'm never going to find someone like her again who respects my gender and cares about me like she does. Since we're still friends, she talks about her dates with other men, and it makes me feel worse and like I'm not enough. I don’t really go out either, and that's adding onto it. I feel like I'm never going to find someone because I'm trans.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 30th, 2025

@shyWalker5389

It's important to take your time and know that you will find someone else when the time is right.

Dont rush into something that is wrong.

Trust your instincts.

💖

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla December 6th, 2025
@shyWalker5389 I can only imagine how hard it feels, but don't forget that you're not alone: lots of trans people have felt like this at some point, including the many that eventually found their love.
Our feelings don't always speak the truth. Sometimes we only see part of the bigger picture and we give more importance to the things that make us feel down than to the many possibilities that life can bring.
Hold on to hope, and don't forget that the world is full of people that can look past any prejudice and see the beauty in the person you are. Take good care of yourself, embrace your feelings, find the things that make you feel confident, strong, even beautiful. The rest will come with time.
User Profile: GoodTrouble19
GoodTrouble19 December 8th, 2025

@shyWalker5389 I understand 

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