Voice dysphoria and meeting new ppl
Hello. I met someone online and we really like eachother. It's abt to lean into dating. She knows that I am trans ftm and pre t . So that means I still got a feminine voice. And I feel reallyyyy uncomfortable with that. But since it goes into dating I feel like it would be recommended to talk to her on the phone or just showing what my voice sounds like. I really want to do that. But as i said , I feel so uncomfortable and dysphoric with showing ppl my voice. (Also because i think she would see me then more feminine which I don't want). Has anyone experience with that and has advice for me I'd reallyy appreciate it : )
@communicativeApple9560
Hello! First of all, congratulations, I'm glad you found someone you're happy with :)
If you don't want to talk on the phone, you don't have to. Those who care about us understand our boundaries 💜 but if you do want to, you might try some voice training! Here's an example.
I hope that helps! Dysphoria is a beast. You've got this 💜
-Elliot