Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

How doubt creeps into your mind

User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 January 4th

Daily Check-In: January 5th to January 7th 2026

Doubts can creep into your mind due to a fear of failure and the unknown, making it challenging to understand your feelings. This confusion often stems from past trauma, low self-esteem, negative feedback, and procrastination, as well as the "what if" thoughts.

Doubts frequently emerge before important events, such as giving a presentation at work, trying a new recipe, or starting a new school or job. It’s essential to find the strength to overcome these feelings so you can move forward and succeed in whatever you choose to pursue.

Doubts are a form of fear that everyone experiences. Often, you envision the worst-case scenario instead of focusing on positive outcomes. For example, you might think, “What if I don’t do well on my presentation?” or “What if I fail my test, even though I studied for it?”

4 ways to overcome doubt:

Observe without judgment:

When your mind is racing and the voices in your head won't quiet down, one important step is to stop and find stillness. Take a moment to observe what these voices are saying without accepting their claims as truth. Stay curious, but proceed with caution. For example, try to imagine yourself as a fly on the wall, observing your body language and the messages from these voices, while making an effort to overpower the negative thoughts.

Question is validity:

Pay attention to your body language and your thoughts. While sitting down, consider writing everything out for a clearer picture of areas that need improvement.

Flip the script:

Listen to what the words of doubt are saying. Once you realize they are wrong, it becomes easier to change those words. If self-doubt comes into your head, welcome it,smile, and treat it like a friend.

Embrace "and" thinking:

When you feel like you're spiraling down a tunnel of darkness, start to find ways to make that self-doubt leave your mind. You want to train your mind for the possibilities rather than doubts. You can begin to say "what if I do it this way" "what is I did not have these feelings", come with the ways to turn around your doubts to a clearer way of thinking.




image_1767545576.png


How can you overcome self-doubt?


Current taglist as of October 19, 2025


@4551SP @Admirablerainbow2825 @adrjust1 @adventurousBranch3786 @adventurousCat7477 @Agent22 @alexandralee @AllAboutThePeace11 @Always25 @amiablePeace77 @asherb281 @avistaco @Beechie @Blueberryrabbit @cal1860 @CaringSoftly @CatHanderOutNoah @Chiara117 @communicativeJet616 @dapperBeach8823 @daydreammemories @EchoOrAsh @ElenaDeMonaco @eternalMusic21 @FaithMonk9473 @Falcon05 @FloraBelle @ForestZen @frankPark1546 @freeman @GentleHealingInitiative @Goldenfox2009 @greenScarf6235 @iloveyouxx @imprettysleepy @indigoBeechwood597 @infiniteforever12 @InsightfulPhoenix @Invisibility101 @Izila @JarofSeeds627 @jaywalkk @Kait @Kickan75 @kindRiver6 @kivesh @Littlejoy11 @livinggadget @MindfulJourney22 @Mishka1599 @mytwistedsoul @nessdamess @NotAllHere713 @onwardforevenmore @pamharley003 @PeacefulBeach3454 @peacefulDovex @PopPunkPrincess17 @Proof222 @Rainboho @rebeccastgo @Rose483 @sincereGrapefruit83 @Sirpi @SkillfullMeans @sky2Ocean20 @Snowy00 @sociableKiwi3027 @SparklesFly @sunshineBeauty5741 @Swordpsalm @tallZebra8032 @TealPhotog @thoughtfulSail5983@Tinywhisper11 @toughApricot223 @understandingTree5725 @virtualSolace44 @VKlistening @warmMemory6263 @weirdofr @yellowIdea7518 @yellowPineapple3652 @YesWayJose @yzzil @Zeraphim @zombeach



4
User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 January 5th

@pamharley003

It's something I have to work on consistently.

Through affirmations.

Through reminding myself, we all make mistakes.

All you can ever do is your best.

Daily, consistent habits allows me to feel better 💚 😊 

User Profile: PupboiCody
PupboiCody January 5th

@pamharley003

Thank you for sharing 😘

@pamharley003

This is a great read! Being able to acknowledge thoughts and feelings without letting them immediately become truth is a powerful skill. 

User Profile: The24hrClimber
The24hrClimber January 23rd

@pamharley003

I did by writing to someone who might care or is involved somehow that I'm ascared but that I intend to do that thing I'm out to do. Doesn't always work but it helps.