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How to stop feeling overwhelmed

User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 March 14th

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You become overwhelmed when your brain has demands far too high to manage. It runs wild inside you, so choose one to work on first, then proceed to work on the others until you're feeling calm again. The overwhelming demands can be from exceeding thoughts, having higher expectations you put on yourself, and higher responsibilities.

We need to learn that when things are not normal or safe to proceed, we must work on prioritizing our thoughts one by one to be able to manage properly.

First, you must take time to settle the racing thoughts in your mind. Begin by placing the hardest or smallest thought first; challenge the difficult ones in steps to overcome what needs to be worked on next. You begin to set boundaries for each thought on how you want it to be worked on, coming up with ideas or steps easy to handle should it happen again.

Steps and strategies in tackling your mind:

Write them down: write each one down, and while you are doing that, go over each one by coming up with how to fix that problem.

Set a "worry time": set a time aside for worrying about problems. This is where you calmly work them out and come up with a suitable plan.

Do not dwell during the day: this only stops you from getting through the day. Tell yourself you will work on the problem later when you have "worry time."

Make a plan and carry it out: make the worry time and come up with solutions to the problem, writing them down to keep for future needs.

Accept the worries you cannot control: Accept that you may not get all the worries worked out. Know you can only do your best with how much time in the day you have. Remember to set a time plan to work on as many issues as need tending to.

Focus on the now: Focus on what is being done in the now, and know later you can come back to the trouble times and sort them out.


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How do you work out your overwhelming thoughts?

Do you have a plan for working them out? 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 March 14th

@pamharley003

Thank you, love these points 🩵🤗

Music helps me.

Alone time.

A cup of tea.

A long hot, bubble bath.

Family time.

Talking it through with someone who isn't afraid to tell me what they think and not what I want to hear 🤗🩵

User Profile: The24hrClimber
The24hrClimber March 14th

@pamharley003

I was kinda already telling myself that I can only think of what I need to do now and not all these big future prospects that can't be done if I don't get up to dealing with my own independency first... I saw today a post of a musician I regularly follow, he's a folk musician and he is always on the move making small concerts for people to dance and enjoy their night. Seeing him post these very active, in your face, moments from time to time, reminds me of what I should be doing... like him take that moment to do something as "simple" as putting my work or art into action even with what is happening everywhere, we must keep who still can, living. I see this prioritizing thoughts like a very useful tool I'll use :) thanks Pam

User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine March 14th

@pamharley003

Awesome again Pam. I did a 6 week CBT course a couple of years ago, a worry log and set worry time was probably my biggest take away from it but it has lapsed. Time to reintroduce the process along with writing a letter to my self which includes self compassion and gratitude. Intentions are still on the list to include at some point.


User Profile: Harmony8682
Harmony8682 March 15th

The things which help me when i'm overwhelmed is: writing them down in a journal, doing a brain dump ( where you write all of your thourghts on a page) and writing them down and then priotising the different tasks.

User Profile: akunknown
akunknown March 15th

@pamharley003

How do you work out your over whelming thoughts?

By using all the tips you listed above (the Steps & Strategies and the other list under that of Things To Remember.) which are all things I’ve regularly been doing before I’m in situations where I believe there’s potential for me to be overwhelmed if I don’t prepare myself with those tips ahead of those situations. 

Do you have a plan in working them out? 

My plan has so far often been to tell someone I can trust that I’m overwhelmed or feel like I will be overwhelmed and ask them questions about how to cope/deal with or solve this issue while talking with myself about this.