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Mindfulness Check-in August 3

User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver August 3rd, 2019

There is always something that seeking your attention. With the limited resources, you cannot pay attention to all. That is why you need to be mindful and not mind full.

To de-clutter the headspace, one thing I ever learned is - Know when to disagree.

It is easy to agree on everything. Easy to say yes to all that needs attention. But, it is not helping. You are filling your space and after a while, it seems cluttered. You start feeling overwhelmed, burned out and get into a habit of complaining.

If you know your plate is full, you need to disagree. You need to embrace the fact you cannot pay attention to everything. You cannot say, "Yes" to every single task.

If you are clear, polite and concise why you disagree, it is all good. And when to start being mindful of it, big shifts come your way. You feel good about yourself. Your focus increased and you are a better person at managing your emotions and tasks.

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User Profile: SueStorm
SueStorm August 5th, 2019

So very true. Thank you for this.

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User Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin August 6th, 2019

@SueStorm ello Sue great you stopped by todayyessmiley

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User Profile: betterchoices
betterchoices August 5th, 2019

This is something I'm really working hard to be better about!

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@betterchoices

And what is that?

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User Profile: betterchoices
betterchoices August 5th, 2019

@ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp The subject of the post!

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@betterchoices

hmmm... I don't get you :(

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User Profile: betterchoices
betterchoices August 6th, 2019

@ThankYouForLettingMeTryingToHelp Saying no to things!

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@betterchoices

Thanks :)

User Profile: sunnyZebra2336
sunnyZebra2336 August 6th, 2019

@betterchoices Hi! I know what you mean about saying no> I am currently changing my thoughts as I have a very hard time saying no! It is like I want to please everyone and that is not possible. I am currently struggling with this but have done well over the last couple of months. It takes time to change one self. I use various meditation techniques to focus and increase setting my boundaries. This will come you just have to believe that you are as important as others. There are some great meditation techniques for mindfulness on meditation in the recources section.

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User Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin August 6th, 2019

@betterchoices hey there good you are here! It is good that you are working on this as it is not easy. Sometimes to get started and to be mindful of yourself is to first try setting some personal healthy boundaries. These boundaries are like fences that keep bad out-lol. They also warn you when you might be getting used, abused or not even being mindful of you.

Here are some video's that might help you:

Creating Healthy Boundaries: https://youtu.be/CSZuR30GiXI

A Guided Meditation On Setting Boundaries: https://youtu.be/rhY760PtNxM

I hope these can be a beginning for you, also if you like we can chat on making a forum thread on boundary making. Good luck-hugsheart

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User Profile: sunnyZebra2336
sunnyZebra2336 August 6th, 2019

Ok I am here

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User Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin August 6th, 2019

@sunnyZebra2336 ello Summerheart

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