Mindfulness Daily Check-In February 05, 2018
Hello to Monday. What is Monday but the beginning of a new cycle. Like being born all over again. Change is happening all our lives. So what can we do about change?
One approach is to fight the change and try to keep things the same. Then our life becomes a constant struggle. We are never content because we are always trying to reach an unattainable goal. Often we are striving for perfection. It is a bitter disappointment to never get there.
Another way is to accept that life will keep giving us unexpected things, some delightful and some painful. When we accept that these changes are unavoidable, our days become one of contentment and being aware of what is happening in our body and being aware of the thoughts and emotions that come up and disappear. We do not cave in to the pain and disappointment or get overly excited about the wonderful times.
The choice is ours to focus on what we choose. It is not easy but in the words of Ram Dass "Life is the only dance there is."
So how is your Monday going? Is it full of judging how we are now or what we are living through ? Or is it full of accepting that we are here in this moment doing the best we can?
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@soulsings The day went pretty well and I wasn't too stressed. I had such a hard time getting to sleep last night because I have a severe stomach infection where I can't eat certain foods. Anyway I was so tired getting up to go to college and I'm actually really proud that I made it in because many times in the past if i didnt feel good I wouldn't show up for college. I'm proud I didn't cave to my feelings and got up and went in. I seriously thought I wouldn't be able to do it. And to my surprise the day didn't go that bad. I had stress afterwards for 2 or 3 hours for whatever reasons but now I'm back to feeling more grounded and calm.Only being stress for 3 hours is good for me.
@Nairhair95 It's great to hear that you were able to attend your classes! I'm proud of you too! I know how hard it can be to not give in to your feelings and I'm glad your stomach was in good enough shape to get out there and attend classes :)
Hi @Nairhair95 -way to go - that is tremendous how you worked through your emotions. That is a way of seeing past the thoughts and emotions and getting on with the day. Good job!
We did this video in mindfulness session today at 7cups to reduce stress if you care to try it. https://youtu.be/6CCEYJ82rl4
@soulsings
So how is your Monday going? Yesterday was a hectic day for me. Though good news was that I became Intern at 7cups. So was understanding the things about it.
Is it full of judging how we are now or what we are living through ? Or is it full of accepting that we are here in this moment doing the best we can?
It was mixed. It is never 100% full of judgement or acceptance. It always lie on a scale of 0-100. Yesterday I think it was around 65% of acceptance and 35% of judgment considering I am underweather as well due to cold.
@ASilentObserver ((hugs)) sorry you are feeling under the weather.
You are right it is not ever all one way or the other. There are always different things happening.
My Monday went well. I am appreciating each day as the only day I am sure I have. It makes each day more precious. In one way that is not pretend. We only have now. Next minute our heart could stop or life could end. So being in the moment is not making assumptions about tomorrow and just being grateful that we have right now.